Chick in my bed twice, I'm in her bed twice. She's an objective 8, pushing 9 on a good day, she's got orbiters who are 6'5 and jacked lmfao. But I just can't bring myself to fuck her. Is it because I'm relatively inexperienced, or put off by the fact that she's a hoe? It's not low T since I weigh 172lbs 9% bodyfat, lifts are 275 bench, 365 squat, 445 deadlift I can also dunk with authority at 5'11. Idk if I'm just depressed though my mood is pretty low. What's wrong with me? I escalate to a point but then I just stop and she cools down in like 30 seconds so by the time I'm actually feeling it we're back to square one. Sorry I'm just so confused, if anyone has any ideas I'm all ears.
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kv2_0833 1y ago
No. I genuinely wish it was. Maybe I'm depressed but this shit is soul crushing
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Don't do it if you don't want to.
It's weird to place this amount of pressure on yourself. There are plenty of times in your life where you just don't want to fuck a woman, that doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.
kv2_0833 1y ago
But I'm attracted as fuck to her just not in the mood to fuck? I know that sounds weird, maybe there's something wrong with me but she's one of the hottest girls I've dealt with. And I do enjoy kissing her and her presence so I don't even know what's up
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Again, you're putting unnecessary pressure on yourself. Just FUCKING relax.
If it happens, cool. If not, cool.
kv2_0833 1y ago
I guess you're right. To be honest I do want to fuck her but she's into being dominated hard and that shit doesn't come naturally to me, I guess I'm just a pussy, I'll full send next time I see her
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
I'm not calling you a "pussy".
I'm telling you that you do not know yourself.
Turning down sex is an extremely powerful display of self mastery. You don't have to fuck.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
Sounds like good old fear wrapped up in a bunch of ego-preserving buffers.
kv2_0833 1y ago
Yup, you're right. I'm just a huge fucking pussy and thought that maxing my physical stats would remove the taking what you want factor. Next time I see her I'm slamming her against a wall and escalating all the way
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
You're putting her on a pedestal. It's just become an obstacle you need to overcome. Screw the "dont do it if you dont want to" advice, it's bs. Escalate, get naked, play with her, fuck her.
Then you can read Sex God Method to get some ideas on how to be great in bed.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
It's not putting her on a pedestal that's his core problem. His problem is that he doesn't know his own mind so he's putting unnecessary pressure on himself.
The idea that he needs to "Escalate, get naked, play with her, fuck her" is terrible advice because he clearly doesn't want to do that - If he wanted to, he would have.
He needs to ask himself if this is what he wants or if he's doing it only to meet some stupid RP hookup fantasy. Then he then needs to figure out why he's placing so much importance on this woman rather than focusing on his needs and seeing her as the notch she clearly is.
kv2_0833 1y ago
I think I want to fuck her but I'm being a pussy and scared of coming across as sloppy and inexperienced to a seasoned hoe. Thanks for all the input and comments, it's clear now what I have to do
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Sounds like what "No More Mr. Nice Guy" addresses in a way. Toxic shame surrounding sex?
kv2_0833 1y ago
Thanks for the recommendation, bought the book. And you kind've hit the nail on the head yikes
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Glad my short comment strikes to the heart of the issue
Good luck man, hope it's therapeutic for you
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Do you WANT TO FUCK HER?
Is she your type? You tell me how she's objectively hot, but not that you LIKE her.
kv2_0833 1y ago
Yes she's my type. I'm a fucking pussy. I'm just going to go for it next time I see her
Terra 1y ago
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Smoke a bit of weed to relax
If d3pressed try microdosing shrooms
You.don't say do you fuck other 8s
kv2_0833 1y ago
I'm a virgin who developed the body and looks but is missing the confidence. I can pull hot chicks but I guess I'm afraid of coming across as inexperienced and that spreading amongst them. I've never smoked weed after a terrible trip on dmt but I will try
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Maybe you're just gay/bi. I'm bi and this happens to me. I usually just force myself to cum in the hoe as a pity fuck.
kv2_0833 1y ago
It's funny cause me being gay is sort of an inside joke, however with the help of others' I've realized that I'm just a fucking pussy who's afraid of coming across as inexperienced to a seasoned hoe. I love reading your posts man, next time I'm probably going to just slam her against a wall and make out with her escalating all the way. But since I'm pretty up there socially, I'm afraid of my reputation being like a virgin among the hot chicks lmao. You have any tips? I'm at this university town for the next 3 years, physically I'm 1% here
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Go read Sex God Method. It usually takes a woman 45min of mental warming up to have an orgasm. I call it prep work. If you do it right, she only has to fuck you for a couple mins before she cums. Be sure to align your dick-hole with her cervix-hole and cum directly into her uterus when she's ovulating. Chicks love that and she'll tell everyone you're a sex God. If she gets pregnant tell her to sleep with a cuck and say it's his kid.