2 years is a while, it has only been 2 months, give it some time don't push the healing process

Take 2 snorts of oxytocin while cumming in a HB10 prostitute and call me in the morning. Seriously, your brain chemistry is what's going on. Learn from your mistakes, reset the brain either through natural means(oxytocin via sex) or artificial(snorting oxytocin during sex). Men's brain chemistry changes after mating. You're in that phase. Get out of it. Also do some combat sports.

, and she's been posting half-naked pics of herself, acting like a bit of a hoe. She's fully entitled to do that of course, and it's none of my business at all, and you may say AWALT, but that is very out of character for her to do.

It's not out of character at all.

It's out of the character YOU thought she had. Maybe she even projected a good girl image to you. But now that you're not together, this is the real girl coming out.

This is not the right sub to talk about ex's.

Let me explain why.

1. TRP believes in abundance and no oneitis for a girl.

2. People assume shes your ex for a reason, therefore you should never get back with her. Ever again. Especially if you made a mistake and you fucked it up. (Makes no sense but ive seen this be ignored many many times). I heard AlphaMaleStrategies make a very valid point, you should only want to get back with your ex only if YOU fucked up.

3. AlphaMaleStrategies said something so true that ive always known of: No matter how fucking red pill you are you will eventually meet the right girl that will make you want to go purple pill eventually in your lifetime. And redpill men will NEVER empathize with that, NEVER.

4. 95% of redpill men online, IMO, are younger guys who take everything way too literal and apply no practical advice. For example, you meet a good girl, its ONEITIS. Theres no gray area between. You should be spinning plates bro! The inexperienced guys who never spinned plates dont realize its an empty game and not fulfilling once you are truly confident. Spinning plates has its place, not knocking it at all. All LTR's should be a plate, so its a necessary process.

5. A lot of redpill men online, have arrived here from being a loser in life. So, a lot of these anonymous users are men who will sabotage your relationships with their advice. Some of it accidentally, they have no real life experience. The others will sabotage on purpose, because people can be petty and envious for no reason. Ive taken advice from this sub before and it ruined my plate last year. The same guy who gave me advice was making posts a few months later and it was obvious he was less experienced then i was! He was talking a big game when giving me advice...

6. This is no longer Reddit's asktrp. That place was special. This one is a castrated island with the same 10-15 posters. Its a very small echo chamber here. You are not getting good advice from a select few.

7. Most guys on this sub are in Steps -3 to 1 in attracting woman. Theyre trying to figure out how to lose weight, dress better, socialize more, how to approach, how to know what women find attractive. You are on Step 10. How to break up with a girl, how to get back with an ex. You are far ahead than a lot of posters here who will give bad advice. I read on TRP once that experienced men are figuring out how to break up with women, and inexperienced men are trying to figure out how to escalate on dates or approach women in general.

Im currently going through this too. My ex of 1 yr, I made a mistake and broke up with her, she treated me very good but i pushed her away at the end of the relationship and i ended it because i lead the relationship downhill and it felt like i couldnt recover it this time. I broke up, I made the mistake and reached out a few days after. She didnt want me back because i hurt her. Started No Contact from there. 5 weeks now.

Just like you ive been dating other women, and i hooked up with a rebound a week later. Pretty girl, nice body. We had very mediocre sexual chemistry and chatting with her in between rounds felt like we had no chemistry compared to my ex. This is going to sound so fucking weak but I cried on the way home after fucking that girl. Only because it was about a week after and i had no business dating other women in the same week i shouldve been grieving alone lmao. I was basically sad all day before the date. Anyways To fuck a pretty girl and have it remind you of your ex was a scary feeling to have, Ive never had that before and my n-count is around 80. Meaning ive walked away from 70-80 girls before this and had no attachment post-break up.

Im now in week 5 and she has been acting weird on social media like shes trying to get my attention. I have this strange feeling that she wants me to reach out to fix things, because i felt like i didnt give a true apology after the break up.

Im not going to lie, the first 2-3 weeks were horrible. Around week 3-5 is when she started ramping up her weird behavior on social media: posting photos with a dress i bought her, posting heart break memes, etc. When she started doing this, it relieved a lot of my anxiety about never getting her back. I felt like she was cracking first and thats all i needed to see. I have this confidence that one day I will get her back, but I need some time to work on myself. I want to only contact her when I truly changed and am able to show her this. Even if she may want me back now and we get back together I will probably repeat the same mistakes.

So basically its week 5 for me. Ive heard most couples get back together between months 2 and 3 of NC. So i plan on reaching out in 7 more weeks (3 months total). Im socializing every day, literally going out to cafes and bars meeting new people in this new city i live in. Its helping a lot, and i feel my SMV is increasing and this will help me become better if i ever get back with my ex.

Ok lets get to the meat and bones here. What is your gameplan with your ex? You guys broke up, you feel like shit. Have you tried asking for her back? Are you deciding to move on? Are you working on yourself? Did she break up with you.....?

People say time heals, but it's really sleep. Have you ever said or done something socially or professionally that just made you cringe really hard at yourself afterwards? But then you get a couple of nights of good sleep, and it's like you genuinely DGAF, even though the memory is still there, clear as day. You can think about it, but you don't feel compelled to go: "uuuuugh" anymore. Your brain has basically detached and scrapped a negative emotion from the memory.

It's like that, only for a bit longer.

So make sure you get enough quality sleep, and don't go reinforcing those same emotions in between. No contact, no stalking SoMe, no looking through pictures on your phone, no going through old messages, plenty of good sleep, and you're good. Also, try and stay away from alcohol and drugs for the time being - even cannabis. All those things mess with your deep sleep, which is when the magic happens.

I know fucking a bunch of sluts is a popular problem solver around here, but I really don't think it works for this kind of situation. First of all, everything is relative, so spending time with low quality, low value slappers will only reinforce it in your head that your ex was some kind of unicorn (which obviously she wasn't). Secondly, if the lifestyle involved with that - drinking alcohol, staying up late, crashing in someone else's bed, them crashing in yours - is going to mess with the quality of your sleep, then it's a double negative. Prioritize sleep over sluts.