As the title suggests. Out of curiosity I turned my dating apps into "open to everyone" mode and OMG sooo many likes from guys. Almost none from girls but I never swipe so that's probably why...is getting this much attention from guys a good sign or does it mean I'm too feminine looking or something? I am just turning 18 so maybe it's just that I'm young and fit.
But also what are the general opinions of TRP and homosexuality?
Kabiier_0308 1y ago
If you're homosexual/Bi it's a good sign and if not.... it's obviously not a good sign lol .
As a straight guy I would be a bit weirded out if a gay guy hits on me.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
What this means is this: Women are ridiculously discerning on OLD (because they are in a minority, unlike men swiping on men).
TRP and homesexuality: no stance. We are a male to female sexual strategy place. We have no opinion on homosexuality, and no opinion on the best colour of wallpaper.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Gay guys swipe like straight guys, i.e. will swipe on literally anyone moderately fuckable and probably just blind swipe a lot too. It literally means nothing. Gays are thirsty af and most of them will fuck anything with a dick that isn't ugly.
Seeyeay 1y ago
Facts, gays are horny degens who get off on the idea of 'turning' a dude.
The only lesson you can learn is the bit of empathy for women when it comes to getting unwanted attention. Be careful around gay dudes if youre a pretty boy. They will try and take advantage of you.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Huh, I hadn't thought about that. That is true though, and might be a useful lesson as long as you don't let it turn you into a pussy who doesn't approach. It might help a guy tailor his approaches better you know?
Do the "open to all" thing on a dating app and make notes of which openers make you cringe the least and then use those on girls.
Seeyeay 1y ago
You would be better off showing up to an improv class than opening your life up to having gay guys hit on you all the time.
wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
THIS! It's a much easier method than setting up a young female sock to look for decent one-liners.
GrassIsGood 1y ago
Horny degens? If a couple guys just want to suck each other off, what is the problem? I could understand if it's guy after guy and distracting you from other things in life but if it's fun and you're into it, I don't see any issues right?
NeoSpartan 1y ago
This. Even ones who know you are straight, maybe especially... they are fucking animals and if they get too aggro and you have to punch them in response.. the way the laws are in the USA you could end up in jail for months or years because of hate crime laws. Bisexuals are even worse, gay guys are cesspits for various STIs because of their extreme promiscuity and if they are also fucking girls from time to time.. well that's how aids spreads, and more recently monkeypox. There are definitely issues and the degenerate label is accurate.
GrassIsGood 1y ago
I mean it's common sense you don't punch anybody in general unless it's obvious self defense. Both straights and gays get STDs...and even though the amount of them is higher among gays, it's still low in the big picture, and last time I checked condoms still exist.
TRP always talks about how men should have sex with as many women as they please but now that men are involved it's different?
Not defending a stance just asking questions to further the discussion.
Seeyeay 1y ago
BRUV gay dudes get STDS at an alarming rate. Their are entire gay commnities that get off on spreading diseases, google is your friend.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Sure, I'll explain the difference. It's pretty simple and obvious...
Getting women to have sex with you is about 100x harder than getting a gay to fuck, so shit doesn't spread that much. Some guys may try to fuck as many as possible but most of them fail and maybe get a couple a year. With gays it's two guys who both want to fuck a lot and have little to no Anti Slut Defense. And go look up the CDC data on STI prevalence among subgroups if they still publish that shit... they might not anymore.. it is 2022 now.. But, the difference is fucking huge dude. Exponentially so. Also like I said earlier, gays can often be aggressively handsy with straight guys and it's really gross when it happens to you. It's like how girls got so mad about the meetoo shit, same thing. Unwanted and aggressive sexual overtures are really uncomfortable and violating.. plus.. like I said, hate crime laws so you can't just punch them like you could a straight dude of a non-protected class who gets up in your face.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I'm pretty sure you can punch a dude who grabs your junk. There's a reason why this only happens in gay venues and not in public.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
I'm not talking about in public or gay venues, I'm talking about regular parties at friends houses and stuff like that. Or raves... fucking raves. Never actually had one go so far as to grab my junk tho, thank god. Worst was probably this giant fat one that came up behind me while I was talking to a chick at a party and like.. bear hugged me and hands started drifting down so.. fucking almost :/ I slid out though and said wtf or something and he left after that.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah well everybody's junk is open season at mixed venues. All of the gay/bi/trans people I know will tell you first otherwise it's sexual assault and you can go to town on the SA perverts. Teach them a lesson they never forget.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Don't you live in asia though? I live in the US man, very different place in regards to this stuff.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I been stuck in the US for the last 10 years. Playing escape the US right now.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Lol, I could sworn you were in like the philippines or somethin. Haha, good luck bro. I've contemplated doing that for years. Think I'm just gonna end up moving to a less shitty part of the US though.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
There isn't a less shitty part of the US. You've got deep South black shitty, rust belt meth head shitty, midWest cowboy shitty, Calexico gang shitty, steers and queers Texas shitty, Rocky Mountain holy highness vegan shitty, etc. Dudes come to the US from Canada thinking they can escape but then they end up leaving to places like Panama.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Pacific northwest, away from the coasts, some smaller cities and towns are pretty legit. Took a road trip up there a few years ago.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
The entire PNW is burning to the ground thanks to drought and wildfires. I suppose there's one spot near the coast slightly south of the Columbia river. I live in E. WA along the Columbia river and everything is just so expensive in the entire state. Everywhere is either over-fished or off limits. So many rules and regulations. Crowded camping. Lots of fat people. Stuck up chicks. Nice place to visit, a real shit hole to live in.
Terra 1y ago
If you will talk to enough people to build social SK8lls you will come across some gay GU6s trying to reel you in. It doesn't happen to me often as I bail sooner as I don't need to waist my time.on their game if its obvious.
But today I.chatted a guy going into.the same shop we had this chat and clerk joined in. Then he went for fast series of personal questions like a machine gun. What it did it showed me so fucking clearly why a man gaming should never do it this way. He asked me point blank where I work on my wague response he pushed, when I said that I don't share he got butt hurt and said oh so that marks the end of conversation. I wished him good night and left.
It was funny to realize that men do the same mistake. Being pulled in a bad way by gay gay is very grounding.
GrassIsGood 1y ago
Hold on...asking someone where they work is now considered rude? What kind of a world do we live in lol. That's a common question I ask to make small talk...
Terra 1y ago
That was real world convo. And as @NeoSpartan said you don't reveal things that will get you doxed or put you in any disadvantage. I could lie which I do anyway, but I didn't see any point to invest into possible gay guy and him asking too much.
That he got butthurt about it, explains you a lot. With sincere intent he'd share why does he need that, share it himself beforehand or explaint the reason behind it. Apart from social aspect there is plenty of people trying to get info from you to use it.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
I think it was probably more the rapid fire thing. Not very conversational, I could defintiely see how that would be off putting. Like an interrogation.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Also dude, remember, this is online strangers. You gotta have some tact and build decent rapport before you start asking people doxy things. For one thing, catfish exist, could be that you aren't even talking to the person you think you are. Good thing to keep in mind when talking to girls on apps.
Bulba 1y ago
Gay sex is messed up. It’s not worth it even if you’re just curious because of the risks. Unless you’re totally gay it’s better to avoid it and focus on pussy even though it’s harder to get.
That said it doesn’t matter if you’re young and fit or old and fat, there’s a gay fetish for basically every male body type ( bear, twink, nerd, daddy, and so on ). Sex is the gay handshake.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I get fuck tons of attention from guys. It doesn't matter if I'm fat or in shape, young or old, shaved or hairy. I know gay guys who would kill for the attention I get. I think it's because I'm white, blue eyes, tall, etc. You can be hot to guys and not to chicks. It's not a feminine thing. I look like wolverine with all my hair. It's very masculine and very attractive but chicks nowadays are like "ew". At least in the US. I was killing it with the ladies in Russia and Asia. Anyway I'd love to tell you more but I gotta go soak my dick in my Asian wife's tight pussy for a couple hours.