It's just quite honestly amazing how this girl who told me "I'll love you forever" and "I'll love you more than my life" moved on with another guy after promising she will be with me forever. She had the audacity to upload it on Facebook. She didn't even think that it'd reach me somehow even if I've blocked her. She genuinely doesn't care about me. It's crazy how women can do that and men have to put an effort to do that.
I will NEVER EVER take her back. I wish if I could but she's just no more the same old person. She is some evil witch now. Anyway, I kind of moved on but when my friend sent me a picture of her, emotions came rushing in. I want her to beg me to take her back and I wish to dump her.
What can I do here to increase the chances of that happening? Upload pics on Insta with other chicks? Showing off my happy life? She is not on my Insta though.
sad_sleeper 1y ago
First of all, don't have that kind of mentality. I want her to beg me to take her back? Really ? Is that the only girl on the planet ? Block her from every platform, block her number, hit the gym, start a hobby that is taking you out of your comfort zone.
Marcus Aurelius said it the best: The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury!
Whoever send you these pics is not your friend!
Believe me I've been there, my ex dumped me for her male best friend( yeah a red flag but back then I was a noob, not reading the signals) I even lost my job because I was suffering too much and couldn't focus up.
And guess what happened to my Ex, she is now 33, she got hormonal disorder and is now a land whale.
BDATA 1y ago
I'd give the same advice to a guy if I were feeling great. I felt so sad the day I asked this question. I don't know why I felt sad. I was over this hoe. Deep inside I had a feeling like I'd marry this bitch and this would be my last girlfriend. In a way, I dodged a bullet but I wonder how can people change so fast like this or if they were acting, how can people act so good like this. A woman who cried Don't leave me when she found out she had a serious life long illness left me saying that she wants to take care of her parents and now she is with another man! I don't think I'll be able to trust anyone in life now.
Update for everyone who commented : I am feeling much better now. I have visited a tourist spot with another girl. We kissed and now feeling great and I don't think its necessarily because I found a girl but perhaps, its been a long time since I've traveled. It seems to me that men should travel a lot.
financehardo420 1y ago
I mean tbh bro…
1) depends how much time has passed. If this was recent either a) she’s been banging dude the entire time or b) he’s a rebound meant to make you jealous.
If she was banging dude the whole time you’re shit out of luck. Maybe fuck one of her hotter friends n call it a day. If you really wanna be extra send her a snap of an ig model sucking your cock lol.
If she’s trying to make you jealous then ya play the game back go no contact n wait. Vast majority of dudes have weak asf stroke game so like all it’s gonna take is one dude to suck lmao.
2) plates plates and more plates
BDATA 1y ago
Aye Aye sir.
TriumphoftheSwill 1y ago
Dump your social media. That's playing the game on their terms. Women fucking love looking through people's social media and spying on people. While I was dating her my ex did it to her ex constantly. It gives them self assurance and makes them feel above other people. You can infer whatever you want through social media and women love to play that game.
Delete it all and you'll be better for it.
BDATA 1y ago
The whole idea of me starting an IG was to fucking hurt that hoe. Let that hoe see my success. Actually, I stopped social long time ago.
TriumphoftheSwill 1y ago
You've got to be careful. For every minute a man spends on social media, a woman spends a thousand. They have much more experience with it.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
The amount of guys simping over their exes on this forum is astounding.
Why the fuck would you go out of your way like this over an ex?? Way to be a CHUMP.
BDATA 1y ago
I am not simping. I don't like her. In fact, I hate her now. All I need is revenge. Like Vermillion-Rx said, living a better life seems and showing it off seems to be the best revenge!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Why not simply live a better life than her, find an upgrade from her, and let her see that she got replaced by a better woman by the man she dumped?
Much more rewarding
BDATA 1y ago
In fact, I am already working on this. Thank you.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
As you should
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I had an ex do this through my friend. I told him I hope she gets in a car accident and dies choking on her own blood. Never heard about her again.
BDATA 1y ago
I really wish she died too. I mean, I can't even believe that I am saying this about someone who was family for me. How people change with time.
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fumbor 1y ago
I’m in that state right now. Unfortunately the best revenge is really to just live an extraordinary life and be better than all of the men she has in her candidate pool; but if you’re that type of man, you don’t give a fuck about her anymore , so revenge becomes pointless. It’s like a paradox or something