Met this girl online in June. During that time she was out of the city with family and just returned last week. She always reaches out to me first, and tries to talk to about random stuff, how her day was and all that since June. I shut that off real quick and told her I don’t do texting only in person, she still tried reaching out other times after that but I kept the convos short. Since it’s august now and she’s back in the city, I asked her to meet up, she said she has work and suggested another day but I have work then. I said no problem, and she just said well that sucks, and didn’t try to put in any other times in the future that may work, and tried talking to me about random stuff again. I left her in delivered. I don’t want to give this girl any free unnecessary attention, so what do you guys think high interest or attention?
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
She suggested another day, so she wasn't just shooting you down. Suggest a day yourself now
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Ok fair enough, so I guess the earliest me and her can meet is a month from now. So should I keep texting her because this girl LOVES TO text all day, or should I just keep distance and reach out to her again later about scheduling something?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
One month is ridiculous. If you ever plan on having something regular with this girl it looks unlikely.
Not worth the grind in my opinion. "To be honest, that's too far out for me, I don't know what my plans will be a month from now" and then go find other women.
You can't be chasing a girl you met 2 months ago who promises to meet you a month from NOW. The likelihood of her changing plans on you between now and then is astronomical.
I would just text her what I quoted and move on
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Could still go either way. You tried to meet, and to be fair she offered another day.
financehardo420 1y ago
Trying too hard to be nonchalant is pretty chalant bro.
Should have just said something like “well fuck me I work that day; let’s do ____day instead” and youre in.
Is she telling you she won’t be able to hang for a month? If so forget about it juice isn’t worth the squeeze. If you’re telling yourself u won’t be able to see her for a month also forget ab it - a month in girl time is like a year fam.
Find more plates and this will be irrelevant
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Ya that’s the problem, if I gave her another option it would be a month from now. Honestly this girl really annoys me, she talks too much and just wants me to text her all day. I do think she wants to meet up, but I think what she wants most is attention from me cause I refuse to give it to her.
financehardo420 1y ago
Ah easy just soft next till she starts coming correct