Guys, I banged this tinder girl a few times. From the second date I was not putting a condom as she told me she's on a pill. However I still never finish inside her but on her face/mouth. But now I realized that I can't trust a person from tinder that I met a few times about such important thing.
So here's my question - how do I revert back to using condoms with her without it being akward? Any joke I can make? Or should I be honest and say I don't feel fully comfortable without it yet?
Thanks!
sad_sleeper 1y ago
Wanna Have a tripper and HPV ? You might have to go and check yourself.
With a Tinder girl, Imagine how many people she has fucked and you will figure out what I am talking about.
nodaysoff 1y ago
you are playing russian roulette, not necessarily with a child, since you know FOR SURE that you did not leak in her and cummed outside.
You are playing it with an STD. Why the fuck would you bang a tinder hoe without a condom? I'd be more worried about STDs when u pull out of a tinder hoe than a kid, but still, always use a condom man.
Buy thin condoms or latex-free condoms, like Skin condoms. Game changer. You can also buy Pasante condoms, which are the thinnest latex condoms, apart from the ultra small japanese ones.
Stop watching porn and don't jerk off, and you will barely feel any difference with those condoms.
How do you revert back? You just put the condom on, no need to tell the bitch. I like using condoms because many hoes feel like prostitutes, and that's a good thing, it fucks up with their mind. Just like some guys don't want to cum because they practice semen retention or some shit, but still fuck the bitch, it really fucks up with her mind.
She can gaslight you by saying "oh but i'm not a prostitute or don't u trust me?" and you can lie to her and say that you are doing this for your own both safety, that u want to protect her or some shit, then go and clap those cheeks.
Raw is reserved for LTR's or women you know really, really, fucking well.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
You are legally financially responsible for any children you have, EVEN IF SHE LIED.
RIGHT
Just start using it, you don't need to explain. Or say "I wanna finish inside you". If it's a problem, dump her.
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
Condoms help lasting longer. So you could use that as an excuse, bc you feel "overstimulated" or sth.
GrassIsGood 1y ago
Eh that sounds a little wimpy to me.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Just don't say anything and put one on. If she asks just say "I just like how it feels with one sometimes" or w/e. Pull out method is solid if you have good control though, almost the same as condoms based on the stats I read. If you have bad control though... not so much.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Trojans ultra thin ones feel pretty good for her still. my plate loves them and still cums easy even with one on.
As someone else said, just say you want to last longer and "have more peace of mind after thinking about it" about it.
If she pushes say some bs about how "birth control pills dont always work" and it just "dawned on you more since last time"
None of that makes it sound like her or her fault. If you need to, throw in a "it felt great to feel you without a condom on, but I'll have more fun inside you with peace of mind"
Like others said, you probably don't need to say anything at all unless she asks