I am not here to get validation. I can't deal with overwhelming feeling of guilt, sadness, grief over an ex girlfriend aka oneitis. İ am having guilt of the moments I acted beta and the fact that it was my fault that ended the relationship. Memories of Good times, sex and etc. I am going to gym, socialising , started new hobbies, trying cold approaches but no success yet. I am meeting a new girl almost everyday but maybe my game sucks. I am reading books. I am doing everything to be busy but...

She is always in my mind. It has been four months and she already moved on to a new relationship. I just can't let it go. I am also get sad about the fact that I part of me still hoping for her to come back. I feel sometimes very motivated but other times kind of weak.

How do you accept that your ex now is fucking someone else? The girl that treated you like king now is bending over for someone else? Developing more options? How does it work when you forget gaming girls and started learning again? This is really hard for someone who is unsuccessful with women.

The question I am asking is how do you really accept and let go?Is this normal for longing that girl eventhough you know it was a slut. Is it a conscious decision that you make? Is it something you do everyday? How do fuck you accept and move on? Is it repeating over and over again "she is not yours its your turn". Is it really just time that helps it? İs it monk mode?

I am listening other advices you gave before , I mean I am really doing them but I could not accept the fact that its over. This seems its only problem I have now.

How do you kill your emotions? I really want to be emotionless, cold, have an IDGAF on everything. I am using my anger and sadness in gym and approaching.

I have one goal and it is to be a man that women afraid to lose. A man that no one can make him sad. A man that is indifferen.t