So Im the one who broke up with her because she flaked 3-4 times, bizarre reasons were attached: grandma and lost cat. She posted a photo of her grandma with RIP, and she posted a photo of her cat as her profile photo. This is the extent of my "proof" of it being legitimate, although i have no reason to NOT believe her.
I then excused her behavior for grieving. Righteeously so, maybe i made a bad judgment call for breaking up. Anyways I have her on Social Media and 7 days after we broke up, she posted a meme of "When he invites you out to eat but you are the meal" and then posted a photo of a margarita in her hand inside someones house.
OK fair game, i dumped her twice, she is able to see other people. Its called a rebound for a reason. But if it happened within a week of the break up and she flaked on me 3-4 times, is there a chance that these are connected? That she actually branch swung?
Boys, it gets so much worst. I saw the brand name of the drink in her hand, it was a store in a drug dealer neighborhood, literally on the same block there are dozens of drug dealers and hookers hanging out in apartments. I know this because i used to pick up weed there. But they also sell other shit. Its the most seediest, shadiest, drug dealers, who some probably pass as gangster/criminal alphas.
The thing is she really doesnt smoke weed, ive smoked with her before and she hates it. So i dont think she met one from drug connections, but moreso could just be attracted to the thug. She is a good girl too, it was just very unexpected she would fuck with someone like this. I know girls love drug dealers, but these are the most grimiest ones in the city. And im no square either. I have my shit together now own apartment job car 27 years old but i used to sell drugs in high school/college and my brother went to the pin when i was a teenager for selling. AWALT...
Two theories:
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She actually cheated on me and branch swung to a narco drug dealer towards the end of the relationship, and the grieving and bizarre excuses were manufactured because she wanted to force me to break up with her, or wanted to fade me out, or wanted to keep me a second option.
- She didnt cheat on me. Everything unfolded the way it happened. But she most likely hit up an ex-fling, all girls have some lined up from before the relationship.
The thing is I believe she isnt actually in a relationship with this guy though, so it makes me think it wasnt a branch swing but a rebound. Also there is no photos of her and him, i believe it to be just a hook up. But it was very fast which makes me suspicious. I guess if it was an official relationship it wouldve been a branch swing. But i still cant help but feel that maybe he was the reason she started flaking on me towards the end.
ASKTRP, did my ex cheat on me the entire time or was she actually grieving and just found a rebound after?
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bymxco 2y ago
Well its important because I plan on contacting her one more time after 2-3 months no contact. That would be my absolute last attempt because i will be leaving the country a few months after for good. Its not a good feeling to meet a foreign girl that treated you nicely and you treated her like shit and then never see her again because shes in a foreign country. That means she was very sexy traditional and feminine, high value in our eyes. Thats the type of love stories that haunt you, i know thats bluepill as fuck, but its true. This is not an average girl i have oneitis over that im dating down with to be treated well, which seems to be TRP sentiment.
If she cheated, then i wont. Thats why im asking for insight from yall. If she was grieving, ill give one last attempt to rekindle. Most of the relationship she was good for me, and i killed the relationship by running too much plate game accidentally. Most good women would leave someone if they are treated like a plate. This is why I am fixated on getting her back.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
It's over dude. You have to accept that, and I know you won't no matter what we tell you.
The alternative to leaving it in the past is trying to keep it in the future until it implodes even further
Also, no one is going to definitevely know if she cheated or was just grieving. I still maintain that she didn't start flaking till her grandma died. 2 + 2 = 4.
She has every reason to rebound after how that relationship ended. I'd be shocked if a girl didn't want to rebound after what happened
Also, you are fixated on the possibility she cheated, I don't know how you can get through a relationship like that successful constantly trying to wonder if she cheated
Skev77 2y ago
OP is def not gonna listen. Idk how many times he posted about this situation, he’s lost right now. If he was still in a masculine frame I would say forget about her she may or may not hit you up after the rebound after finding the rebound wasn’t what she was looking for. But the worst thing for OP right now is to be in contact w the girl.
Op is so weak right now, if she wanted to meet up with him he would propose :D goofy.
pofkaf 1 2y ago
This is like the 20th post you've made about this one particular girl. Stop seeking validation from strangers on the internet. Next!
Intrepid_Place53900 1 2y ago
( I broke off with her because she flaked 3-4 time)
You broke up with her because she's not LTR material. Nothing else is needed here.
Move on, find better girls. Most of them aren't worthy of a LTR, get used to it man.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Dude, move on
Durek_The_Bald 2y ago
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fblackstone 2y ago
This guy has a point.