Assuming I fail red pill, like shit test or i get broke etc
Why women still continue the relationship and not find another guy. I can see how they loath being with me, but somehow not just leave? The sex continues and sometimes they will complain how the sex is free for me. I am not leaving the relationship because sex is still always available, I will stay in the relationship until it can no longer hold. She knows I still stay because i only want sex. IS this situation unique or common?
Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
(why women still continue the relationship and not find another guy) , I'll edit it to what I think you are getting at.
(why women stay in a relationship with a guy who will not commit to her, marry her,etc)
Because she can't find a "better" guy, and or thinks she can't.
If she's young, she'll probably move on at some point , wants kids, marriage,etc. In the end, she's (hoping) she can win you over, you change your mind.
MGTOWKing 3y ago
It's just you.
Bulba 3y ago
Unless it's a girl with serious daddy issues, don't expect this kind of situation to last for more than one year.
Skev77 3y ago
Another part to the hypergamy could be she sees you as beta bucks. This way your giving her the free attention and money while she cheats and finds the alpha to procreate with. A good way to find out is to stop the free compliments (if you do) and/or state how your financially strained at the moment. True intentions will be revealed, time period? Well that depends on a fuck ton.
Now if your rp and knows your woman looks up to you it’s rare that she will ever do that because your the alpha that provides her with just enough beta bucks ie your not only the sexual best that makes her pussy wet but you also got your shit together.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
This happens all the time. Women be dating felons in prison. She's with you for the dick. The hot sexy tingles you give her.
Durek_The_Bald 3y ago
It's context dependent, and there's not enough information here to go by. Also, the little information you provide is all very confused.
For one, you're mixing up alpha and beta credibility - to put it generically - so it's hard to tell which way you're "failing red pill" exactly. Going broke, and not having frame, are potentially two very different things, with a different emotional impact on her (need Vs seed).
Secondly, if you're being honest with yourself when you say all you want is sex, then I don't see exactly how you manage to fail shit test. Men usually fail shit tests through emotional neediness, and being afraid of a woman's disapproval. So either you're not being honest about how blasé you really are, or you're confusing shit tests with comfort tests.
Thirdly, being handsome goes a long, long way. That's why lifting and looking the best you can is a core red pill principle. If you're really good looking, have a fantastic cock, and she's emotionally very geared towards alpha seed, she'll put up with just about anything. Some women will even stay with someone who beats the living crap out of them on a regular basis, simply because he's the most handsome guy she can get.
If you want to start getting a handle on these things, I suggest you go to work in the sidebar - not just the sidebar itself, but also the literature referenced there. It's more nuanced than what it looks like at face value, and beyond the core principles, nobody in the red pill sphere can really agree on just about anything, much less when said core principles are actually applicable. So it's kind of pointless to come on here, asking silly, confused questions, just because you want to have your hand held in a sort of "quick summary" sort of fashion, rather than doing the actual work to figure the basics out.
Sidebar. Nobody here should even be wasting our time with this shite. I'm ashamed I bothered to type out this much.
tenfour 3y ago
what about "it's only your turn, gear up toward dying alone if you hold your standards"
Durek_The_Bald 3y ago
"It's only your turn" basically means don't be needy for any particular outcome, and just be glad you're fucking her now. She's not special or anything.
"Gear up towards dying alone if you hold your standards" I've never heard before, but it sounds like something one would say to virgin chasing trad-cons who think they're red pill. Nothing wrong with having standards, but if they aren't within the realms of reality, then yeah, you'll probably die alone.