I'm renting an apartment with 2 other dudes. they're my friends and helped me out a lot, but they're real simps for their gfs who now live with us too. Their gfs are low value women and actually insane - one of them cut her wrists when she and my roommate had a fight. The gfs dislike me, and even though I distance myself from them they see that I'm a trp guy and consider me sexist for resolving issues I have with them through their bfs (not cleaning up after themselves etc). I made myself the enemy when I found them a job when their bfs were complaining that the girls don't work, are useless around the house, and it's tough to pay the bills for them. Today they crossed the line when I made a political joke that was unrelated to them but they considered offensive - they cussed me out and laid their hands on me. One pushed me, I pushed her back and the bf got there just in time to separate us. She's used to hitting her boyfriend who took slaps to the face from her there, and she's now testing me - I do MMA, am twice as big as her bf. I try to avoid such bs but I was about to knock this bitch out. They like to get drunk and do stupid shit. One talks mad shit like she'll beat me up or kill me. If she provokes me by hitting me I know she'll call the cops and play the victim when I push her shit in. I'd find a new place to stay at, but it's difficult since I'm new in the country, don't have a car yet and have no credit score. I fear they might try to pull some crazy shit when I'm asleep. Where can I find normal roommates with whom I can live with right now without a deposit? What websites? What advice would you give me?
PS the boyfriends literally told me they can't do anything about their gfs and can't control their admittedly insane behavior
No-Stress-Cat 1 3y ago
Call the landlord. They're not on the lease. Make him make them GTFO.
TriumphoftheSwill 3y ago
If you're big or even if you just have confidence learn how to be intimidating. I zero in on people and perfected a look like I'm about to explode and it works really well when you want to beat someone into a puddle but can't for whatever reason. Find a few movies where someone explodes in controlled anger and pattern yourself after them. It helps if all you want to do is be violent and you feel like an attack dog at the end of his chain.
It's also good for women. They get turned on when they think a guy is going to murder them. Imagine that.
Laxiii 3y ago
Dont do this, they are just waiting for you to do this
TriumphoftheSwill 3y ago
I do this pretty regularly. Are you have to worry about is not getting arrested if it gets physical. You'd be surprised how many, even big guys, back down.
Bulba 3y ago
Just go on Facebook groups and say you're looking for roommates. Any place will be better than the mess you're currently in.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
You need to get the fuck out.
You can't rend a place without a deposit. Crash at a friend's place meanwhile.
If you don't have a friend or a deposit you have kinda fucked your life up right now. Best plan is to be there never other than sleeping.
Skev77 3y ago
Op fucked up by tryna help those bitches out. Idgaf how red pulled you are if you know the bitches are crazy and the bfs are blue pilled do goodies, keep your fucking nose out of it. Idc if it’s about a job or what; you did the right things trying to go through the Bfs to an extent. Now your in a pickle where even your friends can/will turn on you for a piece of crazy pussy.