Just went down stairs to a local bar, was going well until the friend I wasn’t flirting with decided she’d had enough and wanted to go. I knew it’d be a hard set from the get go as there was 2 of them and just me… should have I flirted with both more and tried for the 3 some (even tho the girl I wasn’t interested in was pretty gross) or did I do the right thing and just try my best on the one with a low chance of converting.
Ideally I should have grabbed some random guy who take the guilt chick arrr… kinda beating myself up now was this girl was seriously my type and we had good sexual tension guess I’ll use it as a learning curve and move on
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Bar game is just getting phone numbers. There are so many things that can mess up your game: fat friend with her, boyfriend with her, hotter guy comes along, she's a model that works for the bar to dupe guys into coming there and buying drinks, Brad Pitt walks in, etc. You just want to go in, find all the hotties, ask for their numbers, and leave.
You could learn a lot from the tinder swindler and apply it here. Creating a sense of urgency comes to mind. So you've got the excitement of a new person... a sense of urgency("I'm leaving soon, can I get your number?")... then you can follow on with social proof and preselection.
STAYShredded 3y ago
Yea right, personally this was my first time trying bar game I usually do clubbing instead because I find it incredibly easy (basically just stand on the dance floor and girls come up to you lol). From this I usually try to pull home directly because numbers are flakey… you have a good point tho, recently I’ve been stubborn in the sense that if they won’t come home with me on the spot I usually just move onto the next chick. Whereas in the past I at least got their number… maybe girls at bars are less inclined to go home with a guy as well so ima have to start remembering to get their number as a plan b… even if only 1 in every 4 numbers I end up fucking from this it’s still not bad… I think I’m just use to going out clubbing and being able to bring a girl back to mine on the night. Unfortunately in my city clubbing is only a Thursday-Sunday thing
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Well you can think of bars like church. Men come there to worship women and women come to be worshiped. Free drinks and validation. After these women have heard a long sermon about how hawt they are and have consumed their fill of beta resources, they head off to the club for alpha fucks. It's as though they're testing to see if their outfit and hair are optimized to pull Chads. If they don't get enough validation, they may just go home.
I got to a point where bar game and club game were just a waste of money so I went to strip clubs for a while. That became a waste of money so I decided to just give the money directly to the woman and proceed to sex. It's served me well. Another thing that has worked for me is pulling them outside the night clubs or bars on the street and taking them home right then and there.
STAYShredded 3y ago
Bar/club game is free for me… I never buy drinks and get free entry to the clubs I frequent… so don’t see any point in not doing it? When I get older and slowly lose my ability to pull the younger girls 18-21yos (legal here) I’ll probably just start going strip clubs and pay girls too but while I can get it free I’ll keep going that option.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I like how they do it in Thailand. They have beer gardens where you basically pay street prices for beer and food and all the hoes have to pass through there on their way to work. If you see one you like, you go fuck her real quick and then she's off to work.
Oh man, this one time... in Bangkok... these locals had set up a beer garden where all the hoes would pass through after striking out at the clubs. We were killing it there.
STAYShredded 3y ago
Where the girls who striked out at the clubs absolute shit but? In western countries even if ur a 4/10 girl you won’t strike out ahha
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Can be hard when the friend is needy and wont let her go.
Some options:
STAYShredded 3y ago
Yea nice cheers this is actually pretty solid advice here… rather than just going into the set telling myself this will be a hard set to pull back conventionally, I should have just made a game plan like you’ve pointed out above