We have a great relationship but new about 4 months, but i notice she does small things that I noticed plates do in the beginning phases of relationships:

You know how girls you start dating will test you by pretending they dont know or "forgetting" basic details? Well, my gf does this, and its a bit disrespectful but not enough to call out. Its like in the beginning phases you call a plate a different name, and they get mad but horny/wet that theyre not important to you. Its the same type of thing she does with me, except guys dont get horny over this type of game. Guys value feeling important in healthy relationships, girls value being "less" than their man and even humiliated sexually, so they get off on that.

For example, we have been casually dating for 6 months, ive been dating officially for 4 months, but the other week when coming over, she asked me to send my address again.

Shes been coming to my house for almost 9 months now! She knows it, but i feel like its some weird shit test where she is trying to make me feel not important

Its like knowing her birthday is in June but saying its in July just to make her feel less important.

Im a bit jealous of guys whose girlfriends know their birthdays by heart proudly, favorite meals, and dont play games playing stupid to it.

Is this disrespect? Next time I will call her out on the address thing.

I know shes crazy about me, its just stupid mind games. People may say its not a big deal and im being sensitive, but its a respect thing you expect from a girlfriend. IF a plate forgets, thats fine, shes not your girlfriend. But for an official girlfriend to play dumb and consciously purposely try plants seeds of doubt is a bit annoying and disrespectful.