Last night I fucked a new girl meet at club, she was young 18 (is legal where I’m at) and quite inexperienced. Anyway, the dynamic was obviously in my favour, she wanted me more than I wanted her, I am more attractive, more status etc etc.
Anyways when back at mine she kept shit testing me and failing which was quite sad to watch and started to turn me off as she kept trying and trying… any thoughts why she would keep trying repeatedly even tho she was failing…
Essentially she kept saying that she’d just leave then and pretend to walk out despite being half naked or whatever depending on the time in the evening… the last one was when she was giving me head and said it again! and I said yep good call, time to go ahaha (her head was pretty average so I didn’t care)… from here she really started losing frame bc she realised she had no power if her head wouldn’t even get me to give her an ego boost or whatever she was looking for.
TRDR: why’d she keep pretending she’d leave even tho we both knew she wouldn’t and when I actually told her she should she got all but hurt and begged to stay and suck my dick more (lol). Is this just sign of a low status girl or someone who dosnt get social interactions ahah.
Maybe 3.5year age gap was really evident in the way she acted and that’s what was off?
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Well, you passed shit tests and had frame, but you failed to steer the interaction in a better direction.
You got her to surrender her ego which is awesome, now it's up to you to lead. That's your job, not hers.
Age gap is good. It's not big. She's young tho so dont expect much.
STAYShredded 3y ago
Why bother steering it in any direction? Ahah all I care about is getting laid and fucking the way I enjoy it lol
Bulozi 3y ago
Then steer it in the direction of her being just a plate, nothing more.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
You basically let her ruin your impression of her. You could probably avoid that, and that's one reason you bother leading.
STAYShredded 3y ago
Idk man I kinda disagree, I don’t feel anything I could do would make her feel less insecure around me… obviously these test are coming from insecurity and unless I was to compliment her (ew I don’t do that) there’s no way she’d get over that insecurity….
In my experience I’ve had girls act way less simpy towards me and fall v v hard so will be interesting to see where this goes, I imagine she’ll be the same… when she was putting her number in my phone she was like ‘whose this girl’ ‘jk jk’ ‘you’ll probably never see me again anyway’ so obviously I’ll have all the power if we keep seeing eachother… hopefully her friends don’t talk her out if it bc might be another girl down for 3 somes etc
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
You were there, i wasnt. It's 100% up to you.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
When the shit tests come heavy you didn't dominate her and establish frame. "You didn't pull my hair and fuck me in the ass dickhead so you know I could just leave..."
STAYShredded 3y ago
She was legit thanking me after sex bc I fucked her like she had ‘always dreamed since started watching porn at 11 years old’… so don’t think that was the problem lol
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Weird. Maybe she has daddy issues?
STAYShredded 3y ago
Good point maybe she’s that fucked up that she enjoys feeling super below me or something.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Yeah and what kind of father lets his 11yr old daughter watch porn?
STAYShredded 3y ago
Dude I’m sure her parents didn’t know lol she would have just been on her phone I imagine ahah
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Who gives an 11yr old a phone that can download porn?
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Shit tests are an attempt to gain control.
The problem is..... it's "please give me control daddy". She has no way of taking it, so she keeps trying to trick you into it.
Previous guys fell for that shit, so she's locked into that playbook.