I’m seeing a girl who is really submissive and I’m 99% sure she’d be down for it. Just want to know how to introduce it in a non-awkward way. Should I just show them to her before we bang and gauge her reaction or ask her about it beforehand? I’ve done the latter before and it’s not very sexy.
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tenfour 1y ago
Start with holding hr hands behind back, holding a neck from behind, pulling hair, then other day say I want to try that today, you can stop at any time, but I really want to try it with you : gentlemen option.
gr8bollos 1y ago
Do you already have a sexual relationship first...?
Contrary to popular belief most girls would be down for handcuffs even on the first time, but its usually recommended on 2nd or 3rd, the sooner the better, so it doesnt seem "out of your character" down the line. Act like youve done this before, even if you havent.
The way I did it with my gf, who was a plate at the time, was we fucked and cuddled. I told her to close her eyes i have a surprise for her. She started giggling because it was random and mysterious for me to say from nowhere. Then i put the cuffs on her wrists and she shrieked in excitement as if she couldnt believe i read her mind. Aha Ill never forget her reaction
Then just went from there. Now I take it out all the time, no awkwardness. I never asked for her permission, or approval, but gave her enough space to say No.
Let me emphasize, act like youve done this before, if you say its your first time she will think you are inexperienced and this puts pressure and anxiety on her, youre supposed to be dominant and her comfortable. Experiment and make sure you put the cuffs on something a few times non-awkwardly without fumbling, and research basic safety rules of handcuffs, i.e. keeping it off the vein, not too tight, no metal, etc.
lmann817 1y ago
Yes been banging for a while now. She loves being dominated, and I already pin her hands over her head when we do it, so I’m pretty sure she’ll be into this. I’ll give this a try, thanks
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
girls don't like to be "asked" in reality.
when you hook up with her next, tell her you want to have more fun tonite, prior to going into bedroom (prep her).
Have the cuffs clearly showing in the middle of the bed, this gives her the opportunity to say no. If you don't get a no, then you go.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Having this mentality will ensure it's awkward
When you have sex, hold her hands together over her head or something. Do more bondage like bodily restrictions with just your body. For round two during sex or just during a slower pace during round one, pick her shirt back up off the ground, roll it, and tie her wrists together with it
If she's down for all of that naturally then after sex say handcuffs would be fun and gauge
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I usually wait until my dick is in her and ask her to get the toy I want to use.