Was there any woman in your life who left you for some reason and came crawling back to you after a period of time? If so, what do you think is the reason she came back? Can you share your story?
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Missing your dick/tongue/fingers or all three (if you pleased her right)
Girl thought you were beta/unattractive and then she either sees you in action/with social proof/or had a notable SMV increase and now she regrets turning down a diamond in the rough or wants seconds now that you please her hypergamy
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I deleted my socials years ago, so unfortunately I wouldn't have any personal experience with it
BDATA 1y ago
One of my friends told me that being active in social media by posting pics of your visiting new places, taking photos with hot girls will make them regret leaving you for another man. Why does this strategy work?
Do you have any experience or personal story to share?
UberMench 1y ago
It's so both ways. We men also feel the anxiety aswell, when we see what we could have had but did not get.
It works because you show that you are a High value man, and who does not want to be with one? Her hypgergamy alarm bell rings.
Correct me if I'm wrong.
BDATA 1y ago
I thought the same.
Does this work even if the girl cheated us for another man? Is it like she peeps on your social media and see that you're visiting places, being with hot girls and eating great food and she immediately feel regret? So she'd initiate contact?
UberMench 1y ago
Let me ask you, why do you want her to feel "Regret"? Is it because you want her back? So you are posting on social media for "Women"? Your actions are controlled by "Women"?
She is gone my friend, if she cheated, you do not want her BACK! She will do it again! You have to be the one cheating and her accepting it, not the other way around.
One of the most pathethic shit ever is "Men" trying to get pussy back. She is gone! Game over! She has another dick now.
BDATA 1y ago
I don't want her back. I wouldn't take her back if she is gonna say that she'll die for me or whatever. I wouldn't want her back if she says that she'll kill herself. Period.
What I want to know is what makes women regret leaving you and come back. That's not to take her back but knowing those things or gaining knowledge about this can make men immensely powerful. Now, even the most alpha of alpha will get dumped one day. I know this 100%. Now Redpill teaches us many things which makes them feminine and make our life better however, what if we lose frame due to some random reason(Dad dying, job loss, dog dying or more). This is out of our control. The strongest alpha/sigma will fail here. I am sure about that. So now, we need to learn how to get them regret and make them feel bad after they leave you.
You're so right about we cheating them. I guess men should be polygamous.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Because you're super successful and happy.
Because she isn't.
BDATA 1y ago
Did you peacock your success through social media? Otherwise, how'd she know that you've become successful?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Good question...... I don't do social media, so I can't answer if you're not in the same social group as her.
benzino This Guy Follows Advice 1y ago
Not crawling back but she texted something about me changing quickly and moving on too fast.
When you're with a new girl who's better than her they always get jealous
BDATA 1y ago
They'd definitely get jealous but would they get jealous if they cheated on your with another man? If so, why should they do it?
TriumphoftheSwill 1y ago
Not a long relationship- probably a couple of weeks but I told her to come over, make me dinner and spend a nice night together. When I start getting serious about a woman I have her make me dinner to make sure she's not completely useless. Most either disappear or fail miserably. This one failed miserably. She made chicken and asparagus with chicken as dry as fuck. While cooking she broke my microwave. After we ate she starts drinking wine and pretends to get drunk and starts giggling and acting like a child. She looks in the fridge and sees chocolate chips, claps her hands and screams OH BOY! CHOCOLATE CHIPS!!
She knows I don't drink and by this time she's sloshing around and over exaggerating her false drunkenness. I told her wine isn't allowed in the bedroom because it's red wine and I know she's going to spill that shit all over the carpet. Childishly, she agrees and hides the glass of wine behind her back. By this time I was tired of her shit, grabbed her elbow and pushed her out the front door. She called me for weeks trying to see me again. I think because I didn't put up with bullshit.
BDATA 1y ago
That lady seems to be a pain in the ass. Any EX GF who came back?
TriumphoftheSwill 1y ago
I had one that is very very active online and used to have a blog she would just write whatever came into her head. For years she wrote about me or wrote stories about someone that was clearly me. When it ended I made sure she had no way to contact me so I can't say if she would have tired to get back. That was the first thing I cut off.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
She gets pregnant or runs out of money :)
pfeilmacher 1y ago
Missing my not giving a fuck about her.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
They always come back under the following conditions:
You don't give a shit if she leaves. I'm talking no fucks. Don't call her, don't check on her, don't even contact her unless she left some shit, and that's even a "you left your bra, you want it or should I toss it?"
You are thriving without her.
With #3 in mind, that's why you don't take her back.
Aladin898 1y ago
Not always that simple. Some women just leave and never return. As man you shouldn't give a fuck either way.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Aladin898 1y ago
A women can leave and you not give a fuck and she never comes back even after failing monkey branching.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
It's weird energy to me to place so much concern over people who leave your life.
I was only answering a question, I don't give a fuck about the people who want nothing to do with me.
Aladin898 1y ago
Its beta to think this way Focus on your own life and dont be one of those guys out there trying to make a women regret leaving you and shit. The best revenge is forgetting her and being happy. Not living a life of vengefulness.
BDATA 1y ago
I agree with you however, we need to learn what makes them regret because they know exactly what makes us regret.