Good evening gentlemens,

How do you find a purpose that is not related to women?

Everytime I decide on something I feel like I am doing this to get women.

For example,

Become the best version of myself by lifting and making money, but deep down I knew that I am doing this only to get attention from girls.

I assume maybe this is a side effect of having scarcity deeply rooted in my psyche.

Any thoughts?