So I'm texting this girl that I'm trying to plate and I tell her I'm about to jump in the shower. She texts me back saying "Take pics" followed by "Jkjkjk". I disregard and send her a picture of my back flexed (nothing lewd, just visible back dimples). We talk after I finish up in the shower and what not, and we start talking about her back. I say I've never seen it so I can't really tell. She sends me a picture of her in a bikini facing the camera. She tells me to zoom in on the mirror behind her. She also mentions during this time she has a nice ass.
One thing leads to another, I say she has an okay back, but a bit of lifting would do no harm. She says "fuck you", and I reiterate and stick to my guns. She says "double fuck you". I tell her, "Well, this conversation isn't going anywhere and you're probably buzzed off your medicinal cocktail. Good night." (Verbatim). She responds with "where do you want this conversation to go?", I don't respond. Then, tits. I respond by saying "I'm trying to sleep, text me in the afternoon". And she just responds with "Wow..." I was just wondering if I made the right move in completely disregarding the tits and saying I'm trying to sleep, which I am, and not responding to the "wow...". As always, any advice is appreciated, and good night/morning/afternoon wherever you guys are.

yesnolift 11y ago
Dude you're being way too aloof here. She's continuing the sexual escalation by presenting herself to you. Fucking reward that shit, but don't overreact. Just a simple "nice, let's meet at x on saturday". You carry on like this she'll think you're not into her, insecure, or gay.
She's just throwing herself at you, if you're trying to plate her as you say then push for a meetup and get it done. Don't be "too cool" (a.k.a not cool.)
karmacrunch 11y ago
yeah tell her to come over to watch a movie, this isn't even date territory she's thirsty
favours_of_the_moon 11y ago
Yeah, but that's fine man. I'd rather err on this side than on the other.
Merwebb 11y ago
Better chad than bobby(or whatever the beta guy is called?
AnotherAmen 11y ago
I was under the impression that she was seeking affirmation and approval (she said a couple texts prior that she really didn't like her breasts).
I was going to hold back on the affirmation and approval so she'd try harder to seek it and I'd get more in return. But if this is a bad approach, how would I go about initiating (if I even should) a text to redeem my behavior?
aguy01 11y ago
She is, by trying to turn you on an fuck her. You should have rewarded her good behavior with the dick she is craving. You can't do anything to 'redeem' yourself. All you can do is set up a meeting and hope she is still game. Act liken nothing happened.
AnotherAmen 11y ago
So should I initiate the text then?
aguy01 11y ago
Yes. Basic rules of game apply. Assume the sale, tell her to come over, deal with shit tests playfully etc.
AnotherAmen 11y ago
I'll text her when I'm done at the gym then. So "Dark Knighting", as a comment mentioned, is not an effective game strategy?
aguy01 11y ago
There's no 'dark knighting' that ive heard of. There's Black Knighting and Dark Triad. Sounds like he is new.
AnotherAmen 11y ago
I assume he meant black knighting then. I took that Dark Triad test thing on the main sub and I scored above the 80th percentile on all three. I know scores don't mean shit when you don't score, but just in case it mattered.
favours_of_the_moon 11y ago
Hahaha, you should have banged her if you wanted her.
Merwebb 11y ago
Next time go for the middle ground. Show her she is into the right track but dont show overly too much enthusiasm
24-7-69 11y ago
I haven't posted much before, but if I was you, I would taken the opportunity to invite her over to bang or at least set something up for later if you didn't feel like it right then. Also, I would try to positively reinforce her behavior when she does things like sending you pictures of her tits.
AnotherAmen 11y ago
I'm 18 and still live with my parents and brother. It was past midnight, I wouldn't have been able to on the spot.
AriMerman 11y ago
As far as Dark knight techniques this is solid, and you presented yourself unaffected. If you had approved of the goods without pointing out how she has to develop them into something you might like, if she does the work, and responding neutral, then her ego wouldn't have forced her to escalate. Next achievement unlock, to cement your perspective in her fragile self-esteem rubric is to fall asleep from sheer Boredom and lack of stimulation while she is giving you her best sex ;)