Started really going back to the gym after the semester ended and I quit my job as a cashier at whole foods because the hours were unbearable.
About 3 days ago, I see a girl looking at me throught the mirror of the gym and she glanced into my eyes a few times.
Today, I see a girl there glance into my eyes multiple times and she started bending over and touching her feet with her hands while exposing her ass towards me. I didn't approach because there were guys surrounding us, it was a busy day.
Do these count as choosing signals?
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
Dont run game at the gym.
Lots of women go there for attention. Dont reward that kind of behavior.
Do you randomly do pushups in bars? No? Then why game at the gym?
User4566 2y ago
I can take 2 minutes out of my workout to talk to a girl who has a similar interest.
Scorpion69_ 2y ago
yes. talk to em next time
User4566 2y ago
Do you have any advice on approaching in the gym? I've approached a few where I go up and say "hi" and see how they respond. If it's positive then I continue to talk to them.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
I knew a guy that was Chad Chadington at gym game. He would approach or just chat girls next to him already.
He would just tell them "I like your pants" or some other comment and then have a normal conversation with them.
He said that every girl at the gym knows the guys want to fuck them, so he would just have normal conversations with them and it worked pretty damn well for him.
But he was also confident as fuck and it showed. The confidence part on its own made the normal conversations attractive. He was definitely good at it
User4566 2y ago
Interesting. How do I display that confidence? Stand up straight, smile, eye contact etc.?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
It's not that simple. He just WAS confident. It flowed out of him.
Oddly enough he would pace/walk around in place a lot when talking to you, but it almost seemed like it was out of having too much energy or something.
He did make eye contact and smiled, but it was just done in a way that reflected natural confidence
It's not something I can describe, he just WAS confident. Everything about his vibe said "confident dude right here"
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Basically yes, although it's not as simple as "she chooses to fuck you". It's more like interest/attraction, but doesn't mean she's single/available. She might be though.
User4566 2y ago
Ok, so she sees me as a 6 or a 7.
I'll take it.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Nope........
she sees you as a yes, but might not be available