Been seeing a girl non exclusively for about 6 months now and she’s pushed twice now to be exclusive and I’ve told her I’m not looking for it. Should I break up with her? I know I’m the only one she’s seeing and I’m starting to feel guilty about the whole situation.
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Skev77 3y ago
You don’t break up w a plate. They fall off, if she’s just asking to be exclusive and you don’t want to, just keep telling her you don’t want to. If she decides it’s not worth it anymore she leaves. But you’ll be fine since you got more plates. Now if she’s getting really annoying and combative; trying to force you. This is when you break a plate. (No more contact for her until she acts better.) ofc at your discretion.
No-Stress-Cat 3y ago
Based.
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Skev77 3y ago
8 points on a post? “Yea I write red pilled content, like Rollo. Not to brag or anything.”
I’m not a point watcher lol, thanks y’all.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
see my blog post article "handling the talk".
Don't feel guilty: women ruthlessly exploit men for decades. What you're doing is being honest, you're fine.
roblox_porn_addict 3y ago
True, but not agreeing to be exclusive with a woman is not "exploiting" them.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
"The talk" is a woman negotiating desire from a man. It's as unattractive to men as it is to women when men do it. If you can communicate this to her she might stop. The usual way to communicate it in womanese is to say something like "when you bring up going exclusive, it's like if I was was to say I'm not paying for dinner unless we have sex after. Yeah I know that's totally cringe and what you're doing is totally cringe. I should want to be exclusive with you of my own free will, not because you are threatening to break up".
Nich2022 3y ago
I always go back and forth with myself on this. How should a woman say she wants exclusively without sounding needy? On one side it makes sense for a woman to want it due to survival (resources only for her). On another side, it’s needy. Should a man bring it up first? In that case, it may be needy on his side
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Yes, the man is usually the one to propose. Men control access to relationships. Women control access to sex. When a woman is needy, she tries to backdoor her way into a relationship through sex. When a man is needy, he tries to backdoor his way into sex through relationships.
The way you bring it up is a process. As a man, you would be looking for a wife and mother of your children, first of all. Then you would put her through the sex test and screen for red flags for 2 years. Somewhere along the line you would tell her you would never marry a woman who sleeps with other men. It's more like setting a boundary of acceptable behaviour.
If you're young and not ready to put down roots, you probably just want a hoe to dump your cum in. You may find a ride-or-die chick while pumping hoes and promote her to LTR and she'll stick with you until it's time to put down roots. I was very up front with women when I was ready to put down roots. I asked over 1000 women if they wanted to get married and have kids. Every modern Western woman said no so I moved on and found my wife. Now, they're all single and used up while I have a wife and 2 kids.