As a guy most attracted to what you might call “biker Barbie” with aggressive style and fake tits, I’ve noticed that every one of these girls I’ve seen is with a steroid-level-jacked and well tattooed guy.
It kinda makes sense that the more overtly sexual a girl is, the more she likes values badass traits and the kind of man who won’t back down if she’s being harassed by thirsty fellows.
Now while I know all the standard “male action program” type efforts would be useful in this case, what do you think about tattoos? Is extensive tattooing something you would say is vital to attracting this type of chick or just a crutch?
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Tattoos on a man are a mark of a warrior. Tattoos on a woman are a mark of the tribe they're exiled from. At least that's the latent evolutionary purpose of those things. Sure, there are women warriors and exiled men but that's a very small group. In modern day usage, a tattoo on a woman is usually a memoir of her alpha widowhood. "Oh I got this one because of my ex and he's a Scorpio"
Iliketoast 3y ago
Girls generally project what theyre attracted to. Girls with tattoos, especially sleeves, love guys with tattoos and getting tattoos will definitely improve your chances.
Ive seen weak beta dudes get sleeves and they immediately began attracting girls with tattoos. But thats all they attracted and it didnt last long as they werent congruent with the look.
Both the girls and guys that get tattoos just for sexual dynamics typically have zero personality. Conversations will be dry including repetitive empty chats like 'seen this tattoo' or 'im thinking about getting one on my leg'.
Dont get tattoos just to attract this type of girl, or your no different. You should want to get some because you like the look.
Trp correctly says tattoos on girls are a red flag because it shows impulsive behaviour, a lack of real identity and pandering to group think. Fun to fuck, yes. Anything more will just be drama. Ask me how i know.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
good points. Agree, generally, the more tats on a girl, the more emotional baggage you should expect.
I equate it to a porcupine, each tat, are more quills, at least you were warned.
edjohn88 3y ago
What would your take be on this.. suppose instead of double sleeves just to create an image, you have a few well thought out tats (such as special operations related symbols in my case). Do you think this communicates maturity in its simplicity and/or the balls to go through a painful process? It seems that’s one thing that any tattoos can communicate.. determination over pain.
Iliketoast 3y ago
Do what you wanna do.
I prefer meaningful tattoos over spider web elbows. Those guys suck.
I guess if you have a symbol that shows power, wear it like a uniform.
If you are thinking about doing it my first advice is to think about the background first. Your arm is canvas. Ie wrist is beach, forearm is sea, above elbow is sky. Then layer what you actually want on top. I see so many shit tattoos it hurts the mind that people will go through with it. But ive also seen real art in that space.
But realise this. Its not sending a message that i like pain. When talking about tattoos, its that they are an alpha cue.
Muscles are, strong jawline is, good hair all do this subconciously.
For some reason tattoos resonate with women. I couldnt tell you exactly why. But if i had to guess, its the fact it demonstrates you're as impulsive and short term as these girls are. That attracts alot more potential drama and feels than a man in suburbia with a polo neck shoe salesman cutting the grass.
It also helps that films have conditioned us to see tattooed nuckle badasses as womanisers and its a cheat code to pretending your the bad boy archetype girls accept carte blanche.
Heres a question for you though..... do you respect men for sleeves?
Do you respect men that get tattoos for pussy, even if they get pussy?
Do you respect anything thay comes out of the mouth of a tattood girl?
Personally i see them as red flags on women. Yes, they are always great in bed but they will also slash your tyres or worse.
As i said earlier. Think hard about this because you will attract crazy hot sex and the cost will be eliminating the 5% of good girls that could offer you a family. I dont know one successful relationship where either party had a tattoo.
edjohn88 3y ago
“… it demonstrates you're as impulsive and short term as these girls are. That attracts alot more potential drama and feels than a man in suburbia with a polo neck shoe salesman cutting the grass.“
Holy shit bro… this was like a huge “Woa”. It’s so easy to forget that impulsivity is not a “weakness” in the arousal context. Depths to ponder…
I wonder about your last line though… the only fun couples I can think of who seem to have the alpha man and good wife balance on lock are both at least somewhat tatted. The scores of “successful” couples out there with no edge to them are mainly fake in my opinion I feel like I see straight through a lot of them… especially when I see how eager the wives are for my attention. I’m not sure I consider many of them actually successful.
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Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
You don't need the tats, but you need to be good looking, fit/jacked and have a personality to match that group.
I like biker barbie's sometimes, they are fun, the lower maintenance ones. I don't have any tats.
nroo23 3y ago
It will help with this type of chick a lot. I’ve had a couple GFs like that and don’t ride a bike or have tats but am def steroid-level jacked and have the look and frame to deal with them.
I have been told directly and indirectly in the way woman do by such types that I could achieve that next level of ‘hawt’ to them if I were tatted.
It’s super doouchey, but I’ve also thought of getting a sleeve for this reason. I just don’t give a shit about tats and am not really aiming for this demographic anymore.
But; yes they fucking love tats and it will help your appeal to this type or thick dramatically I believe.
It isn’t vital but it’s as big of an advantage as steroids. These girls are really goofy and superficial in their taste so if you want to turn your self into a biker bad-boy tatted ken doll for them to right ahead - it will help a ton- but won’t help nearly as much (still will some) with ‘normal’ chicks.
edjohn88 3y ago
I’ve also noticed the bad boy persona can be quite wetness inducing for the “basic bitches” as well.. I suspect this benefit tends to outweigh the danger of it ruling out certain chicks.
wolfofallstreetz 3y ago
Women with fake tits and tattos are just doing what women normally do which is SEEK VALIDATION. These women lack self esteem.