Hello, everyone I am new to TRP and quite unfamiliar with most concept My situation is this: A girl i want to LTR has been sending mixed signals, we work at same company and generally she is very social and open to most people. Recent though, she say she need to talk to me and she says that she is not ready, but she still love me and will not mess with other guy until she is. I told her to get up and leave room, and she did with saying nothing. Later we speak over phone and i ask her if she sure? and she say yes. What is happening? How do i deal with her at work, we dont get to see each other much there because she work a different job there, but i see her every day in cafeteria. Thanks for advice.
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whytehorse2021 3y ago
She's setting you up to be an orbiter. Read The Rational Male. It explains what an orbiter is.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Don't be a lazy fuck. Read the sidebar, especially of reddit TRP.
do not shit where you eat, this is an HR nightmare ready to happen.
This is utter bullshit.
"not ready" doesn't change.
"still love me" is bullshit for a guy she's not dating.
"will not mess with other guy until she is" ...... literally this means "when I'm ready, I'll mess with another guy", and this is what happens in this situation 99% of the time.
What happens is that she's almost ready, but just before she can summon the courage to tell you, someone else asks her out and she accepts. Before you know it, she's fucking Chad and you're left holding your dick.
Be friendly, mostly ignore her, SEE OTHER WOMEN.