Are there cases / law that allows a woman to get impregnated contractually by a man and man not being responsible for anything?
Let's say she wants a baby, he doesn't want a baby nor marriage because whatever. He proposes that they can stay together and sign the contract that she is buying natural impregnation service and is absolving a man from any further financial claims. They keep living together or not.
Any countries that would support that?
https://www.progress.org.uk/sperm-donor-to-lesbian-couple-sued-for-child-support/
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
Still think this a terrible idea. Women will not honor your desire to just share your seed without any binding conditions and will eventually try to milk you for more
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
As happened in the linked article, yeah
No-Stress-Cat 1 3y ago
I doubt it. I don't care either way. I would never put myself in that kind of a situation.
Once you blow that load and knock her up, you're on the hook for life.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
What the court wants "for the child" is for the mother to receive a load of cash.
Impressive-Cricket-8 3y ago
Not so much if the State is the one providing it. On the other hand, Average Joe? Perfect.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Basically no.
The only way to do that is by donating your sperm to a sperm bank, and even then they can and will change future laws. They always keep changing the laws. You can't stop them changing the laws and you don't know what they will be in future.
The nature of marriage has legally changed, even for contracts signed before the laws changed. Similar with the legality of paternity and child support. In the olden days men could impregnate women and they'd say "thankyou" and that's that. Then DNA testing allowed for proof of paternity and lawyers said "fathers must pay", and that's that.
So no, you can't do it, except via a sperm bank where you've got a reasonable chance that they won't hunt you down in future. Not a certainty though.
tierteen 3y ago
how the law works for men that buy child from surrogate mother, isn't that likely that either mother can change her mind after birth and claim alimony or even move to the given country and reclaim child and claim alimony.
Why I'm saying that. Although I know it is not the same and it simply is the law, I can see woman in both cases [private sperm donation, surrogacy] could easily be on a winning side, so why I haven't heard yet about surrogate mother taking someone for a ride?
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Yes, absolutely.
Google "surrogate mother demands baby and child support" for examples.
tierteen 3y ago
now I did
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Yeah it's just sperm donation. Happens all the time. Just get a lawyer to draw up the contract or you're fucked.