When a plate says things like "You don't like me" or "You don't like me as much as I like you" or "It is one sided", but without asking for commitment, how do you respond?
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No-Stress-Cat 1 3y ago
"Nope. I hate you. Change my mind."
master-of-losers 3y ago
Great one, thanks!
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
This is bait.
Don't give her ego a chance to convince her that she's too good to be dating you. Dont profess your love or commitment.
Instead, meet her halfway. Dance the line between truth and evasiveness, while provoking emotions/tingles, and you have the best answer. Don't be too wordy, don't be too rational.
You have to read the situation yourself, but to "You don't like me", saying "That's not true, there's a lot to like", with an ass grab for punctuation, or just a forehead kiss, that works fine.
Your body language is as important as your words.
master-of-losers 3y ago
Thanks!
I had 2 plates and I recently lost one after her saying too much of this, and now the other one is also starting to say this. I know that plates do eventually break, but if there's a way to make them last longer I'd rather do that.
Also, these plates both shit test(ed) me a LOOOOOT, so I don't really see how that goes well with them thinking it's one sided. I think I've gotten good at passing shit test that attack me directly, but I'm still learning how to master these weird bait tests where they attack themselves.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
They're called comfort tests and usually start coming when a girl expects more commitment. Treating these like shit tests will backfire because they require some level of reassurance.
Dont take their words literally, only the emotions behind them.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
"You lucky girl"