I know single moms are bad. I don't even date them. But recently found out a girl I've been seeing is best-friend with a single mom. And I mean best-friends, they've known each other for 10 years. I didn't like this girl much when I first met her, and her being a single mom just confirmed all of that.
Now this single mom chick is like the typical you would imagine: always humblebrag about being 'independent' and 'successful', look down on men, write lengthy blog posts about relationships etc. This concerns me a bit as I know they can be a bad influence, especially when shit happens and she goes cries to her single mom best friend.
Is this a red flag for you guys? And if it is, what if a friend of your LTR suddenly becomes a single mom, would you tell your LTR to cut her off?
mattyanon about a month ago
It's worse than that: they will share similar values, which is why they are such good friends.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a month ago
The problem with this that you’re overlooking is that this girl was friends with a hoe to begin with. I would expect that it’s best to not LTR any girl with hoe friends in general, regardless of whether or not they’re single moms.
Now, as for cutting them off if they became a single mom suddenly. It depends. If the girl’s kid’s Father died in a car accident while they were together then no, that doesn’t make her a typical single mom. If the girl got pregnant before marriage and before a long time together then yes. Even if the girl got married after a year and became a mom within two years. That’s a typical single mom. I’d want the girlftiend to cut that friend off regardless of whether or not the friend and her husband broke up. But I’m not sure whether or not/how you can ask a girl to do that.
benzino about a month ago
yeah mate both you and mattyanon are right.
She doesn't necessarily have to be a hoe from the start though, a lot of things can make a woman bitter (in this case this girl's ex husband went abroad, met another woman and dumped his wife and child). I defo don't like her, regardless of her circumstances and them being so close is a ticking timebomb before this plate turns insufferable.
If I had a LTR with single mom bestie I would not know how to break them off either, besides cutting off attention. Anyway thanks for the answers, gday
tierteen about a month ago
even if its true you can't believe it. Women these days can't be trusted to huge extent as they are not required to hold responsibility for anything, and this is being promoted by all mainstream media and culture.
It is like with rapes - generally serious issue but you better not believe it and remove such woman from your live otherwise you might be next accused without reason.
RecoveryTime about a month ago
yes hoe friends are a big red flag.
whytehorse2021 about a month ago
There is a solution. It involves deprogramming your gf from all the feminist lies. Once that's done she'll look at her friend's life and see it for what it really is. I've seen several women come back to reality after their delusion bubble pops.