I know single moms are bad. I don't even date them. But recently found out a girl I've been seeing is best-friend with a single mom. And I mean best-friends, they've known each other for 10 years. I didn't like this girl much when I first met her, and her being a single mom just confirmed all of that.
Now this single mom chick is like the typical you would imagine: always humblebrag about being 'independent' and 'successful', look down on men, write lengthy blog posts about relationships etc. This concerns me a bit as I know they can be a bad influence, especially when shit happens and she goes cries to her single mom best friend.
Is this a red flag for you guys? And if it is, what if a friend of your LTR suddenly becomes a single mom, would you tell your LTR to cut her off?
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
It's worse than that: they will share similar values, which is why they are such good friends.
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benzino 3y ago
yeah mate both you and mattyanon are right.
She doesn't necessarily have to be a hoe from the start though, a lot of things can make a woman bitter (in this case this girl's ex husband went abroad, met another woman and dumped his wife and child). I defo don't like her, regardless of her circumstances and them being so close is a ticking timebomb before this plate turns insufferable.
If I had a LTR with single mom bestie I would not know how to break them off either, besides cutting off attention. Anyway thanks for the answers, gday
tierteen 3y ago
even if its true you can't believe it. Women these days can't be trusted to huge extent as they are not required to hold responsibility for anything, and this is being promoted by all mainstream media and culture.
It is like with rapes - generally serious issue but you better not believe it and remove such woman from your live otherwise you might be next accused without reason.
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whytehorse2021 3y ago
There is a solution. It involves deprogramming your gf from all the feminist lies. Once that's done she'll look at her friend's life and see it for what it really is. I've seen several women come back to reality after their delusion bubble pops.