there's a good looking girl living in my apartment block. i saw her in the elevator 3 times, just exchanged glances. one time i was listening to a podcast and glossing through work emails, she asked me what i was doing. i was very busy so i brushed it off and went about my day. yesterday i was talking to my friend at the building entrance, when she passed us by. i caught up to her, struck up a conversation and exchanged contacts, she seemed very keen, albeit with glimpses of a bitch face, which i chalked up to an attempt to inflate her value since i brushed her off before. that night i texted asking her out for coffee. this morning she responds to me: "i'll let you know right now, i have a boyfriend". i reply "i'll let you know right now, i have a girlfriend". been a few hours, no response. was she uninterested in the first place, or was my text stupid, and if it was, what should've I texted instead?
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UberMench 1y ago
I will let you know = NO
Your respons has feelings and attachments in it. It's screaming beta, and as mattyanon said, sour grapes.
I don't know what a better answer would be, maybe some users can fill that gap for us.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Put it in the back of your mind. Dont text without legit interest from her.
I dont go for girls with boyfriends just because i dont want to potentially deal with some psycho trying to track me down in the future, but you do you.
Continue with life, game other girls. If you see her just say hey, be confident. If you're talking you can continue to game her and figure out if the BF is real/a fling or not at all.
Outcome independence.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
which means "keep you in mind as an option"
Your text is dumb because it's so similar to hers and just looks like sour grapes.
You're fine. She has a boyfriend. Whatever / Next.