Last week I made a post on one of the r4r style subreddits. A local girl messaged me and we hit it off immediately. We moved to whatsapp.

She texted me all day on Sunday and Monday asking me lots of questions. She brought up the topic of hanging out and we decided next week Wednesday. We texted about cuddling and discussed having sex. She was super fast in her replies.

On Tuesday she didn't message me. I also didn't message her because I didn't want to look clingy.

Today I messaged her and she seemed really cold. I asked her what she was doing and she told me she was in uni and talking to guys on reddit.

Later in the evening I texted her again this time to ask if we were still on for next week? She told me that she is not coming. She said that I wouldn't even talk to her. She gets bored easily and she feels slightly bored.

I told her she wasted my time and said bye to her.

I dont care about this girl but I was wondering what learning lesson I can extract from this? Texting her everyday would seem clingy and now she is bored because according to her I didn't talk to her.

Was not texting her yesterday a mistake? If I texted her yesterday I would appear clingy and too available all the time.

Some people said that she was catfish but I highly doubt that since she had a voice call with me and she sent me her photos which weren't very flattering