it’s more just like embarrassing for both the dude and the girl if ppl find out the real identity.

, her body her choice, etc.

This is literally the dumbest justification ever. Choices have consequences. It might be her body, but it's also his relationship and he should be consulted on this before going nude with strangers.

Changing the rules should be an instant dealbreaker.

I need to get through to him, because I know he's suffering. Can you please give me your best rationalizations of why this is fucked up in a monogamous relationship, things I can work with to talk to him.

No...... this is his choice, not yours.

You could ask him "are you happy about this" followed by "what are you going to do about it".

I've told him, sexuality with other people is a big no in monogamy, at least open your relationship or whatever else you want to do. But no.

You can't convert the unready.

"she's not dating these dudes, it's good money for little work, her body her choice"

This is where he was led astray. If he is in a monogamous, committed relationship with her it is absolutely not just "her body, her choice". He is half the relationship and she managed to pull the wool over his eyes with this slogan that modern wahmans use.

Did she ever think that he might be humiliated or consider his feelings in this? If she even did think this did she even care? She is a huge narcissist and I don't see the relationship ending well for your friend. I don't see her life arc ending well either.

Imagine she's 45 and an Accounts Payable clerk at XYZ company then someone finds out about her past because the internet is forever. Companies can fire at will for shit like that. Oh yes they absolutely can even if you are performing all of your job duties at an exceptional level. HR does not like gossip going around and nude pics of employees and you will never find gossip that spreads faster than so and so used to do sex work and here are the receipts to prove.

And if he is the ie: Accounts Payable clerk at XYZ company maybe he can keep his secret among his coworkers provided they never are introduced to her or know her too well. He can break his back at that job while she stays at home because she has aged out of sex work and is unsuitable for any other kind of work after experiencing that easy money.

Hey give us her onlyfans page and we can all look at her pussy. Might as well show their parents too. Her choice, her consequences.

For every OF girls or with any other slutty deviation there will be a sea of simps and betas validating and willing to bed her, she gets all the attention plus the actual guys , the west is doomed

Stop trying to save him. It won't work. He has to learn this lesson on his own.

Mind your own business. It's his problem for being in relationship with prostitute and being beta cuck.

Sometimes, the stove teaches the best. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.

In my opinion, I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with an onlyfans hoe as long as I get money out of it to.

But keep in mind, that would be a relationship that is bound to end one day.