Hey dudes
I've got a friend that I've introduced to some red pill thoughts but it's tough on him, he was very feminized during his upbringing and really hasn't had any traumatic experiences with women to wake him up.
He has a girlfriend that has a shit job, she's hottish but when she gets all the make up and shit she's hot, in an exotic kind of way, so she has decided that she was going to open an only fans, and that it would be just legs, no face, and intimate clothing only.
He agreed to it, I told him not to agree if he wasn't cool with it but he simps. I also told him that she would escalate when she started seeing the money ramp up, and her girls tits and pussy would be on the net, forever.
Now he trusted her. And what happened? She has posted a couple of nudes already.
So, he gives me this discourse that probably came from her of, she's not dating these dudes, it's good money for little work, her body her choice, etc.
I need to get through to him, because I know he's suffering. Can you please give me your best rationalizations of why this is fucked up in a monogamous relationship, things I can work with to talk to him.
I've told him, sexuality with other people is a big no in monogamy, at least open your relationship or whatever else you want to do. But no.
Thanks.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 3y ago
it’s more just like embarrassing for both the dude and the girl if ppl find out the real identity.
braucifarian 3y ago
It's more than that. If people find out and dude is a high performer at work this can affect his career trajectory. You aren't going to wind up director of a department at most companies if your spouse used to do sex work and the office knows about it. It's because the higher ups are going to say that this guy does not exercise good judgement on the most important life decisions how can we possibly trust him to lead department X, etc.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
This is literally the dumbest justification ever. Choices have consequences. It might be her body, but it's also his relationship and he should be consulted on this before going nude with strangers.
Changing the rules should be an instant dealbreaker.
No...... this is his choice, not yours.
You could ask him "are you happy about this" followed by "what are you going to do about it".
You can't convert the unready.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
This. Nothing more to it
braucifarian 3y ago
"she's not dating these dudes, it's good money for little work, her body her choice"
This is where he was led astray. If he is in a monogamous, committed relationship with her it is absolutely not just "her body, her choice". He is half the relationship and she managed to pull the wool over his eyes with this slogan that modern wahmans use.
Did she ever think that he might be humiliated or consider his feelings in this? If she even did think this did she even care? She is a huge narcissist and I don't see the relationship ending well for your friend. I don't see her life arc ending well either.
Imagine she's 45 and an Accounts Payable clerk at XYZ company then someone finds out about her past because the internet is forever. Companies can fire at will for shit like that. Oh yes they absolutely can even if you are performing all of your job duties at an exceptional level. HR does not like gossip going around and nude pics of employees and you will never find gossip that spreads faster than so and so used to do sex work and here are the receipts to prove.
And if he is the ie: Accounts Payable clerk at XYZ company maybe he can keep his secret among his coworkers provided they never are introduced to her or know her too well. He can break his back at that job while she stays at home because she has aged out of sex work and is unsuitable for any other kind of work after experiencing that easy money.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Hey give us her onlyfans page and we can all look at her pussy. Might as well show their parents too. Her choice, her consequences.
MrSupreme 3y ago
For every OF girls or with any other slutty deviation there will be a sea of simps and betas validating and willing to bed her, she gets all the attention plus the actual guys , the west is doomed
pfeilmacher 3y ago
Stop trying to save him. It won't work. He has to learn this lesson on his own.
redhawkes 2 3y ago
Mind your own business. It's his problem for being in relationship with prostitute and being beta cuck.
Sometimes, the stove teaches the best. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
User4566 3y ago
In my opinion, I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with an onlyfans hoe as long as I get money out of it to.
But keep in mind, that would be a relationship that is bound to end one day.
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