I asked this girl that I slept with a while ago if she wanted to hangout. She said, “Not sure i want to make that drive. And last time the sex was uncomfortable for me, not going to lie.”
I feel like it’s weird because I asked what she was doing tonight before that and she said, “Probably just relaxing. (New message) You?”
elevengames 1y ago
Generally dwelling into 'there was something wrong about it actually' is not a good idea. Depending where you are.
Brush the subject off invite to cook this amazing new thing by Goron Ramsey.
Thing doesn't exist in women mind unless it sticks. Don't lest it stick.
pfeilmacher 1y ago
What was uncomfortable about the sex?
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pfeilmacher 1y ago
Maybe you rushed it. If so, slow down. My rule of thumb is to make her orgasm before I penetrate her. That could take 10 minutes or 1 hour. But it's gotten me repeat customers.
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pfeilmacher 1y ago
Doubtful that she's going to play the victim. She basically said she didn't like the sex.
If you're dead set on sleeping with her again, back off a bit and just talk to her for a bit. Once she feels a bit of an emotional bond with you, she might give it another chance.
You've really got nothing to lose here.
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pfeilmacher 1y ago
Perfect!!! Just build rapport. The more she likes and trusts you, the more she'll want to give you a second chance. And when she does, spend 90% of your time pleasing her. Her entire body.
You got this, bro.
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HopelessRomantic 1y ago
Well, that's a let down, but she did end up driving over to see you and that could be viewed as positive. Back off a bit and FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY, FOREPLAY. Sounds like you rushed it earlier like others were saying.
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Hanscheezburger 1y ago
I would text: "that's because it's the trial version. come over tonight and you'll get the premium package" wink
If she doesn't respond then well, at least you tried.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
"I'm sorry I have a big cock".
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
She sounds lazy and has low interest. One time I had a chick tell me "I'm not attracted to you" and I just said, "Well, at least you're honest" and never talked to her again.