Does it even matter how you treat women? I’ve noticed that girls who are fuck yes girls I can damn right do anything up to fart in their face and they still can’t get enough of me.
Other girls its like I can be the most proper, kind, respectful, “fair” guy and its fucking nothing they don’t give a shit about me.
Does it really matter how you treat them or is it like a sole function of status, money, looks and shit.
And what makes the difference between a fuck yes girl and a no girl anyway. I’ve had lots of gorgeous girls obsessed and lots of ugly girls who wouldn’t give me a second look.
I’m just really confused at this point, I don’t understand shit. I don’t understand why some girls like me and I don’t understand why some don’t. I don’t understand how some girls I can do no wrong and some I can do no right.
WokeDown 4y ago
It's hard to dictate attraction on any one person because we all come out different and different tastes, but on a numbers level there's a number of traits women like. Be bigger, dominate social dynamics, don't be a wimp, etc.
If you look around at guys, it's the same thing. The stereotype is guys like big boobs and big butts etc but if you look at a person by person basis, you'll find all different attractors.
What's universal: Be fit. Almost no one but low rent low-value motherfuckers likes fatties (they want women who can't go elsewhere). Chubby chasers don't exist in women (numbers are basically negligible). Have less flaws indicating medical issues/bad health - no one likes missing teeth and almost no one likes bald motherfuckers as a first choice. Dress decent, in the sense you match or are higher than the group. Etc.
There are certain personality traits that get more attention. Some women like introverts but extroverts get over 90% of the attention. And women instinctually act in a group. Who they go for in a group will be different than if they had to choose alone. Do well in group dynamics.
Moonraven 4y ago
RIP am bald as fuck
klasp100 4y ago
I shave my head on purpose and I get more IOIs from girls than when I let it grow and groom it. Maybe baldness is a bit different, but for god's sake don't grow out your hair if you're mostly bald. Accept your baldness and keep it totally shaved. It can look very good. See Andrew Tate on Youtube. He isn't bald yet he keeps his head shaven, and I think it fits him better. The stereotype about bald being bad is way overkill. Being bald is bad if you're fat. If you're super fit/ripped, I'd argue being bald looks better than having a nice haircut.
edit: It also depends on the shape of your head. Having a nicely shaped head makes a difference
Diabs 4y ago
"I’ve had lots of gorgeous girls obsessed and lots of ugly girls who wouldn’t give me a second look."
You said it attraction is just attraction all the smv and general attractiveness counts to a degree but even the top guys and girl will get people that don't rate them. That's why one person's trash is another's treasure. It can be a really good thing some girls just find you in conditionally attractive unless you really fuck it up these are the ones to look for.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Not really.... within reason.
Ok, tackling this one first:
If she's attracted you can do no wrong.
If she isn't attracted, you can do no right.
It really is as simple as that. Women are sexually submissive. They are attracted when they are submitting, and submitting when they are attracted.
Well, that's a lot more complicated. But it is the reality of life that some girls will like you and some won't. You don't need to figure this out, you just need to accept that it's true.
peacemakerzzz 4y ago
As with women: you win some, you lose some. Some girls like you, some girls don't. That's just the reality of attraction. If you want to attract women, you have to demonstrate some form of value that could raise their interest levels in you. First and foremost, improve your social intelligence and learn how to play with her.