A year and a half ago, my female internet friend, whom I’ve never met in person, made a clear offer of sex, and said I was her “dream guy.” I declined, said I didn’t feel the same way. I’m mildly attracted to her, and yes, I'd have fucked her if we'd never met before and would never see each other again, but was uncomfortable with the idea of changing gears after having known her for 4-5 years at that point. I felt that if I wanted to have sex with her, I should have initiated that on my own and not sat around playing "friend," waiting for her to make a move. So I declined. She started dating someone and largely stopped talking to me. She broke up with that person, but I don’t detect the same interest anymore. Recently I’ve been thinking about what it would be like to fuck her. I accidentally liked a picture she sent me over a year ago. So I messaged her, admitted I thought she was attractive in the picture, and said "I always saw you as a friend, but I’d be lying if I said I’d never thought about it." No great reaction positive or negative and we just carried on with a normal conversation. A this point, I can't really decide whether I want to fuck her. Maybe I don't have a choice and she's no longer interested. Or maybe I should just ask her point blank if she wants to fuck and see what her reaction is because we barely talk anymore and it really doesn't matter what the outcome is. I can say confidently I'm pretty indifferent if she says no.