Question: Thoughts on why TRP seems to push us in the direction of plates rather than having ONS? Or am I misinterpreting?
My rationale: Had a thought this morning that how under pretty much every circumstance I would prefer go to a club and find a new chick to fuck than spend time with a plate. It’s more exciting and new. The only circumstance I can think of when having a plate is better is say if you want to have a plus one to an event or go out to dinner etc… but imo I’d probably prefer do this stuff alone atm.
I mean having a plate is good bc you can wear no rubber during sex (rich me saying this as I’m going through a pregnancy scare atm lol) provided you trust them enough ahah.
My solution: I dropped my most needy plate yesterday and thinking of dumping my other two today, especially when one of them is starting to put relationship pressure on me. However I am also tempted to try a LTR with this girl as she enjoys 3somes with other girls and absolutely simps over me (power dynamic is obvious)

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STAYShredded 4y ago
I disagree with this point kinda… sex with new girls is less fun I agree but getting head from new girls is NOT and less fun at all! A girls head game dosnt improve that much from day 1 imo (unless they’re inexperienced). And for me, I much prefer head than sex, way less work lol.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Because, relative to spinning plates, repetetive ONS are not inducive to a worthwhile lifestyle. It means you go clubbing, swipe tinder or do actual leg work in order to get laid just once.
Spinning plates lets you enjoy an abundance of female companionship with little effort, so you can focus on things that actually matter a lot more than laying pipe.
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
good point. and sex with someone you know and have practiced with is always better than first time sex
r3z01v 4y ago
It's easier. And good ONS often turn naturally into FWB.
STAYShredded 4y ago
Until they want LTR status lol
r3z01v 4y ago
They can want whatever they want. It's you that decides how much they get.