Bit of a controversial topic. A very awkward topic.
I watch porn. I've been super fucking busy with work and school that I don't have time to be dating right now. Hell, I barely have time for the gym, I only go twice a week now if I'm lucky.
Anyways, let's cut to the chase: porn is making me insecure as fuck. Every hot girl I see who does OnlyFans, I try to look at their amatuer videos online (of course I don't pay for fucking OF). These girls are hot as FUCK. The problem is, every fucking video I see is them with a black guy.
Now I hope you're not freaking out right now like some retarded twitter user. I'm not racist. I've just noticed that this a reoccurring theme whenever I see a hot girl, she exclussivly fucks black guys. I'm not going to get into the fucking details of it all but I've seen these guys fucking these girls and they don't have monster 14" dongs or are in the best shape.
It makes me feel undesired or unwanted.
I understand that it could be worse, but I don't know what the fuck has gotten into me. Am I right to feel this way? I needed to get this off my chest, no matter how dumb this sounds.
shootinglikekobe 3y ago
Black guy here. Easiest answer is stop watching porn. Does a lot to your mental, and it's hard to recognize the effects when you're in the phase of watching it.
PORN IS NOT REAL SEX. Reread that until it's internalized. A lot of times the guys they fuck are usually their pimp. OF models will use a term like a "manager", but what exactly does a pimp do? Manage the women. So it's literally just another word for it. A lot of OF models also sell pussy on the side. Black guys are more in the pimping world, hence you'll see them more often (also why a lot of working girls do no AA; they/their current pimp want to avoid someone else trying to pimp them). Also it's a fetish thing... not necessarily the black guy, but just a big dick in a small woman.
Another stereotype to break... NOT ALL BLACK GUYS ARE PACKING lmfao. Literally a stereotype with almost no real life support. Think about it.... your basing your view of black guys based on what you're seeing in a PORN VIDEO LMAO, don't know why I even have to tell you that's ridiculous.
User4566 3y ago
Thanks for the comment, I get this post is cringey and dumb but I needed to get it off my chest.
Not true at all. There's a company on PornHub called "Blacked" where it's a bunch of petite white women getting fucked by black guys. These black guys look like their dicks are 9+ inches. There's even a category dedicated to "Big Black Cocks". I understand there's black guys out there with big dicks, but I feel like porn highlights those guys and reinforces the stereotype.
Not to mention, black guys are more popular in America now than ever! A lot of them are the trend setters of society when it comes to slang, clothes, music, sports, movies, etc.
I don't have a problem with black guys being accepted in society at all, but I've heard hoes in person tell me "I only date black guys" and I assume it's because they THEMSELVES believe that all black guys have huge dicks and they disregard every other race.
There's also a bunch of micro-dick cucks that's enjoy porn of other guys fucking their women. Whatever.
The thing is, I'm actually happy with my size, too. I'm white 6'4" and have a 7" dick. So I'm not jealous of these guys either.
I digress.
shootinglikekobe 3y ago
When I say "literally no real life support", I'm saying nobody does polls where they measure black guys dicks. It's obviously a fetish (blacked and whatever porn you're looking at). Getting insecure over black guys you see in porn is like me being insecure hitting on girls because of athletes that are on tv.. every guy I compete with isn't an NFL/NBA player.
Point is they're not going to include any average/small dick dude in the videos. Like you said, porn just reinforces the stereotype; doesn't necessarily mean it's true though is my point. No reasoning behind why you should be insecure. And as a black guy, trust me, there's WAYYYYY more white girls that don't fuck with black guys (or haven't yet) than those that do. You can take that to the bank. Hope that makes you feel better lol.
Lastly, have you seen the white girls on OF typically? They're usually strippers/escorts on the side. Once again, girls in that world are more prone to fucking black guys than the average white girl. As far as I've seen at least.
TheAurora 3y ago
Being busy is always a dumb excuse for everything. If you want to, you can. And if you really were that busy you would be doing life wrong. You are already in a severe OF trap, that shit is just cancer. My advice is to join some grueling sports class, such as boxing, so you can get some proper perspective and some confidence. No, your dumb ass is not too busy to do that. Install a blocker like BlockerX on your phone and laptop. Work on having regular access to sex, 2-3 times a week is enough.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
There is a very simple solution. Stop watching porn. Really, you're just cucking yourself watching other guys fuck women. Quitting porn will probably also improve your solo experience as well as your sexual performance. Did for me.
Read No More Mr Nice Guy. IIRC there is a chapter on this topic.
One of the reasons why black guys are popular in porn as a sub category is because white guys watch it a lot.
User4566 3y ago
I get that a lot of white guys get off to it, but these girls don't really know that. These are girls who don't even do official porn, they're just IG modols who have OnlyFans or personal content that gets leaked. Amatuer videos. They are choosing to get with black guys.
shootinglikekobe 3y ago
Honestly, these women view it as a business. They either know a) they'll make more money/get more views with a black guy or b) they're their pimp. It sounds like you underestimate the thought process of the girls that do it. Have a real "financial' conversation with a hooker and it'll change your mind lol
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Im not entirely sure what your point is, and i dont see why it matters. Black guys no doubt get some free "alpha points" through simple association. Interracial sex can be seen as taboo, black guys can be associated with being more dangerous (similar to the way a tattooed biker is), etc. And these things can be turn ons for girls.
One time i cold approached a young hot chick who gave a long thirsty look to a tall black guy, who wasnt even good looking. I noticed and just kinda laughed internally. I didnt care then, and i dont now. The next day she was squirming around in my bed, not his.
Fact is that a lot of girls wouldnt give a black guy the time of day. Others may even prefer them (at least short term). Thats just how it is with all preferences. You dont need to compete with Chad or Tyrone, because there's enough pussy for everyone who apply themselves. You need to internalize this, and stop watching cuck-TV.
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User4566 3y ago
Kind of doesn't solve it. I've seen what I've seen so even if I stop, the insecurity doesn't go away knowing that the hottest girls that simps would pay to see are exclusively dating/fucking black guys.
redhawkes 2 3y ago
Niggers in porn is classic globohomo propaganda pushed to the max. Same with advertising, music etc. It's pushed by kikes. You should know that already.
The goal is bringing up the inferiority complex in whites (eg your post). The whores you're watching are literally hookers, shit is not like that irl. Fuck, those ig models/of sluts let sheiks fart and shit in their face for cash.
Stop using porn as a crutch and cucking yourself literally. Read the easypeasy method, before you get into more fucked up shit. You're bluepill af, read the sidebar and apply until you internalize it.
shootinglikekobe 3y ago
People like this are those that give the manosphere a bad name. I can tell this guy is an incel bc no way he talks to people like this irl. I mean think about it... do you really think any HVM spends most of his time on here? Make your own opinions and take things from here with a grain of salt.
Sickens me y'all actually gave this mf thumbs up.
redhawkes 2 3y ago
Shaming tactics..lmaoo
Stay on cuckddit snowflake. Im not in the US, racism is old commie trick that doesn't work well here, we've seen it all before in SFRY.
I knew some npc like you will get triggered. Ye, we actually talk like that in the Balkans.
shootinglikekobe 3y ago
Literally you talk like an internet nerd lmfao... nothing wrong with that, but it's proving my point you are one. And if you are from the balkans, there's almost no black people there, thus proving my point you don't say that to black people irl. Also never assumed you were in the US... racism is international.
Immediately went to calling black people niggers and jews kikes. Lot of anger behind that. Anger I'm sure you don't show irl, but are quick to show when on the internet, again proving my point.
redhawkes 2 3y ago
No one gives a fuck about the commie shit you say, address the opinion, not the person, which proves all I said is true. Everything else, noise.
My sides are in orbit already, don't even try to play the victim card or other marxist games, it's useless.
User4566 3y ago
Yeah, sorry about this guy. He's probably Albanian lmao
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r3z01v 3y ago
The way we feel is a window into who we are. You are a wanker right now. It's just natural to feel insecure.
If you have time to wank, you have time to actually interact with a real person.
As for black guys, it just means you are following getto trash that can't get white bois to fuck on cam. Not even joking, these girls are struggling getting a OF dude to do content with. They have to approach the literal trash of the earth, because any person doing sex on OF needs to also have an OF. Guess which men have OF ... It's not the guys with a degree and future.
User4566 3y ago
Dude, I shit you not: I was chasing ass last semester and failed 3 classes. Dating/Studying don't mix for me, I suck at it.
r3z01v 3y ago
Maybe you used women to avoid doing the work. But you don't have to sit with babe in her dorm talking about hopes and dreams until early in the morning.
MrSupreme 3y ago
Stop watching porn, stop PMO (porn, masturbating,orgasm) and start looking at healthier stuff, porn is full of globohomo propaganda as other user pointed out...it gets better after not masturbating for a week or two