I made a post about this last night. I spent the weekend with my boys going out for my friernds birthday. My gf, who we are about 1 week officially exclusive, posted a Instagram story of her in a luxurious hotel taking a mirror photo. I know 100% she cannot afford the hotel herself so she was either invited there or split it with friends. With the monkey covering mouth emoji, which i perceive to be a "cheater" emoji. The part that really gets me is that she was doing this certain smile that she really looked happy and it was sort of an afterglow sex smile. I kind of hamstered that, well we fucked 48 hours ago and i fucked her when she was on the phone with her dad, and i took it that it was an afterglow from sex we had 2 nights before and hence the emoji. Like a little secret message to me.

I was pissed for 30 minutes, but then i gave her the benefit of the doubt that i was jumping to conclusions and she was most likely at a hotel with some friends (girls). Also she was wearing pretty casual outfit with some slippers, I feel like she wouldnt go visit Chad like that, i know when she sees me she dresses up very good with boots and heels or whatever. I know shes the type to dress to impress basically and it didnt look like she was trying to impress anyone.

Well i woke up the next day feeling like i was overreacting, but going to give it a cautious eye. She actually deleted the story. She NEVER does this. In the photo she looked tipsy and i think she posted it impulsively and deleted it when she sobered up the next morning thinking she gave away some evidence.

When i saw it was deleted, i immediately threw out the benefit of the doubt and now i suspect she was drunk in someones hotel room, doing that "secret monkey" emoji. And then I had a thought, that if she was so drunk why doesnt she hit me up for sex? It makes me feel like she got drunk and hit up Side Chad in the hotel.

I dont know what to do boys. I want to call her out, text her and tell her we need to talk and basically tell her "If she is happy with someone else we dont have to see each other anymore". I know she will play dumb and my fear is that she will think that i am the insecure one for making a big deal about a deleted mirror photo.

But i also fear that if i dont say anything she will lose respect for me. The other part, is im not sure if i should demote her back to plate and deal with the bullshit and just get the sex. She is available 100% of the time and we have amazing sex, she is very easy to deal with in that respect.

I really feel like blowing up from this is not a good look even though im establishing a boundary. Technically there were no photos of her with other guys (girls often do this to make bf jealous), and in turn, this seems to be a minor strike. I feel like this is a shit test.

She takes me pretty serious beyond this. I just met her brother and family this past weekend after being officially exclusive. So I dont think im option #5 or whatever. I should also mention that SHE wanted to be exclusive with me not the other way around. She was getting jealous of other girls i was dating. Boys i wouldnt think twice about this if she was a plate, but she literally begged me for exclusivity and i figured she was a good girl why not give her a shot, she added value to my life and never gave me attitude in knowing her for 8 months

Tldr; I want to call her out and basically show a hand that im willing to walk away (and genuinely mean it) if she doesnt get it together. But i fear that this will come across as me being insecure and jealous, and then she will "dump" me instead of the other way around, girls have this ability to twist situations like that.