but I’m chill once known.

By stop being chill... this screams innocent in the context of bad guy exterior

I workout have a pretty athletic body although a bit skinny, I’m intelligent as fuck got my engineering degree.\

Why are you using such feminine language to describe your self? Women's tingles don't care about degrees mate. And the barrier for intelligence is sorted by wit, not book smarts.

This is not how to be a good hubby 101 mate. This is how to get a woman's belly to tremble when you touch her. 2 very, VERY different things.

I mean there is always room for improvement for everything but seriously do I have to be Arnold Schwarzenneger to land a 7.

No, just a man. You need to be a man, not a boyish lesbian with a dick and smoking fashion sense.

You are reciting superficial attraction cues, the stuff that gets pedaled in the mainstream when women are asked what they like or what looks good. All these traits are marginal traits... that women want in a cool, savage masculine man. Without that masculine foundation, without the ability to create and thrive under tension, without the audacity to close in and touch her within 5 minutes of meeting her, without the ability to mesmerize her with your banter and jokes while turning her on with your eyes and shit eating grin at the same time... none of your "qualities" matter.

You’re the steak and vegetables girls turn away so they can eat ice cream and chug a soda. Keep being healthy and working on yourself. Eventually you’ll meet someone healthy who is attracted to healthy. Healthy women are rare these days in the west. Just keep working on yourself in the mean time while you wait.

Abundance is a numbers game. Think of it like applying for jobs.

Apply for one job. Get nervous, blow interview, negotiate shit salary terms, when you start your first day of work, they've filled the team lead position but still have a spot for you in the mailroom at half pay. Go home and cry yourself to sleep.

Apply for 300 jobs. Get 15 interviews, decline all but the most interesting five. Nail all five interviews, due to massive confidence and abundance. Negotiate insane salary terms. Pick only the most fascinating and fulfilling role. Start work on the first day and they're so lucky to have you that they treat you like a celebrity, the V.P. comes down to personally give you the orientation and schmoozes you the whole time trying to sell you on the company, and what a great fit you'd be for top management. Everyday, you continue to get calls from recruiters for the next year.

The goal here is just to change your mentality. So you're bad at pickup. Maybe you can expect a 1% close rate. The best in the world are probably getting less than 10%. So just start working the field. Study pickup. Try to get a 100 numbers a week. Maybe you'll get 30, maybe 5 will turn into a date. Keep a journal of your conversations and approaches, experiment, find what works for you.

You're judging yourself from an invalid external perspective. Go get on a fucking plane to SE Asia and watch the dynamic change.

All this shit going for me but I’m still getting curved by chubby women who watch Netflix in their sweatpants all day.

OLD or meeting in real ?