So was dating a girl( smashed first date using push/pull) but downgraded to FWB because she was untrustworthy. Wasn’t feeling it and cut things off now she’s back.
Thing is do I let her in? She definitely tried and saw nothing was better than me.. originally I downgraded cos of red flags
High n count probably Friends with someone she slept with Friends with ex General untrustworthy Quite masculine energy
Then the final straw was maybe an overreaction of my end but I just upped and left ( she was shocked which I guess was a good thing) when I was on the way back home in the area and she invited me over ( has previously said she was busy that day with a friend and told me on arrival it was a date that cancelled) just annoyed me she knew I wouldn’t come if she told me beforehand
I have been in cars with plates or FWB before saying they’re telling me about people they’re dating. I just found it untrustworthy to not be upfront and disrespectful.
She won’t admit it but she wants me again clearly, spinning a few plates now but she has the best ass ( others have better tits etc)
What shall I do bros?
Kingragnar1588 4y ago
Who cares? Youre not exclusive. Shes within her rights to search for a ltr. Keep her as fwb and pray u dont get an std.
FrameAboveAll 4y ago
U already know she is not ltr material so why should you care what is she doing. Treat her like a plate and have your fun with her.
OPPTRP 4y ago
Makes sense
amazonri 4y ago
You dont gain anything by rejecting her except losing out on sex, and she wont think less of you. As you said, she came Crawling back. Women are very sensitive to the context of things like this, she knows shes the begger.
Its a beginner mistake to be butthurt. And take things so serious and reject her. We have a saying around TRP, if a girl comes back act like nothing happened, we say that for a reason. This may even be your opportunity to make a new set of demands/conditions for your fwb.
Skevv 4y ago
This is a good point I’m in a situation very similar to OP. I keep rejecting her (for a very extended time) surprised she still try to talk to me. Ima use the act like nothing happened thanks.
Iliketoast 4y ago
You set your own boundaries. If you wanna relax them, its on you but im guessing you initially had that boundary to begin with.
Sounds like she chipping away at your frame and you're allowing boundaries to be broken.
OPPTRP 4y ago
Not really, she isn’t my LTR but I hear you
financehardo420 4y ago
if you can smash without being phased smash away. otherwise next and fuck the other girls. as a die hard assman though id say clap them cheeks up and enjoy your turn
Axlerod9999 4y ago
Keep fucking and eventually find better. Only fuck her if you dont hate yourself after. She sounds disgusting (behavior). But pussy is pussy.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3pltm2/humansockpuppets_guide_to_managing_your_bitches/
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Why does her desparation mean that suddenly she's good enough for you?
She's not gonna behave or be any better: they never do.
Fuck her if you want to fuck her. Don't if you don't.
goodmansaysfuckyou 4y ago
DON'T DIG IN THE TRASH.
If you have a vacancy on your plate roster then go find a new plate. If her ass is what turns your crank then find a new plate with an equally impressive ass.
She was bumped from the rotation for a reason. Don't be a bitch and allow your standards to crumble.