I started a new casual relationship. We both have are own issues and neither of us is the "prize" in the relationship, i.e. similar attractiveness and mental health issues.

Due to lazyness I don't really set the "tone" for the relationship. I propose new dates and activities and she usually agrees to them, so it's going well, since the relationship is new.

At some point we're going to encounter an area of conflict and I probably won't have any "hand" or be able to "insist" on getting something I want, I'll just passively accept whatever as long as sex is offered.

I'm not the type of person to become a beta provider ( I don't give her money or run errands for her) we just spend time together and have fun. But, I could totally become the person who gets tossed aside when a "real alpha" shows up and starts demanding that she be available to him on a regular basis, etc.

I'm making zero effort to show that I am a high value male, which in a small way is attractive because it shows genuinely don't give a fuck what people think, but at the same time I can see this will eventually be a problem for me, weather it's with her or someone else.