I’ve give you the straight dope here. I make six figures, not entry level six figures. I have a thirst trap photo, for my age. I make my profile text intriguing. I’m not in my 20’s but I’m also not a fossil. I have a luxury bachelor pad. I use that website. I regularly get opening messages like:

“Hey I never do this but you seem really cool. Are you free tonight? I’d love to come over for dinner if you could just get me a cab.”

Other times the opening message will show high sexual interest, and an immediate invite over has a high likelihood of being accepted.

I never give them money before we fuck. The ones looking for large allowances I just turn away. If I like the girl I’ll give her some pocket money when we hang, but always something small, definitely less than the going rate for “paying for sex.” Most of the cost of the dates comes from covering cabs, food, wine, etc… Well worth it for perky 21 year olds who literally invite themselves over to fuck the same day.

I’ve also had women turn down gift money if they weren’t in need of it and the overall experience was enjoyable enough for them.

The amount of sexual interest you get when’re pre-screed for wealth and status is insane. On Tinder I’m just another older dude with an OK photo struggling to compete with fitness bros and male models for swipes. On that website I’m Mr. Alpha Bucks Sexy Pants.

It’s my main source of casual sex. LTRs I usually find through conventional dating apps or social circles.

Sometimes I’ll share this with guys and they’ll say “Oh that’s dope I should get on there.” Nope, sorry, it’s a no go if you don’t have the money. If you’re attractive the girls won’t expect cash payments, but they still expect an “experience.” Luxury car ride to your luxury place with a luxury meal and a luxury movie in your luxury living room. These girls will not be interested if they’re taking public transportation to your 2 bedroom with 4 roommates in a sketchy neighborhood.

If you’re there economically it’s absolutely the best.

No, but I do know some italian dudes that do well. Say yes to everything, buy her dinner, fake the beta bux frame to a T - and then make hard demands. NEver give her a cent until she accepts the hard demands.

When she rejects your proposal say - ok, we will get there. And get free vanilla sex. Well, free in the context - you still pay for the hotel, dinner, shows - or a dress and plane ticket. You need to sell the beta bux experience after all.

If you are cheap like me, or don't actually have escort money to burn - DO NOT DO THIS... she will read your frustration and sexual neediness and shoestring even basic affection like kissing or holding hands behind a paywall.

Girls are girls. Hinge is the app for finding "real relationships", SA is for sugar baby relationships, but as soon as a girl is attracted enough she doesnt give a shit where she found you.

Have seen reports of this working fine on SA. But im not sure about the time investment. Screen well, be upfront, be attractive, be dominant and have your shit in order.

It's a sugar-daddy site created to match gold-diggers to desperate rich guys who need to buy affection, so don't expect to get a girl who isn't just trying to divorce-rob a simp. Sure you could try your hand at it, but let me ask: would you go to the strip-club expecting to find a wife? The hoes on that site are just looking to trade sex for money in a legal way; and are probably all damaged goods anyhow. It would likely be worse than dating platforms.