Have a housemate, complete beta, 25, skinny, feminine vibe, you think he's gay when first meeting him, reddit hivemind, doesn't shut the fuck up about meditation and conscience, smokes weed and plays videogames all day when not doing school. Does yoga. Believes in astrology. Really girly vibe.
18yr old HB5 moved into our house, he pushed for an LTR with her asap, while they were dating, his girl was showing me pics of her ass on her phone, told me about the old 40 year old men she's fucked, etc -- has a bunch of shitty tattoos, the works. She moved to Europe to volunteer and now they're "long distance" -- Lol.
Anyways, when they were together and I was in the vicinity, he'd say shit how I'm short (5'8, he's probably 5'10), I'd brush it off and not care, hold frame, I'd treat it like a girl shit testing -- Later in the day I'd think about it and it'd kind of piss me off but again, this guy is a fag like why do I care.
Then today, in the kitchen, basic idle conversation, other housemate in there as well, I was talking about something how my job made us do some random harry potter personality test (random useless corporate meeting bullshit stuff) I mention how I got Slytherin as my 'house' and he says something like "cuz you're a bitch" and I kind of ignored it and brushed it off.
Thinking about that now I'm pissed off I didn't say anything, but how do I handle this type of situation? It's a housemate situation as well so idk what to do in this.
I make more money, younger, am better looking, better personality, lift, done mma for YEARS, could kick this guys ass with an arm behind my back and still this guy tries to peg me down in the presence of other people even though I've been nothing but respectful to this dude.
Should I even care?
I don't know who else to ask about this except you guys -- any older dudes wanna weigh in?

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OtPayOkerSmay 4y ago
He probably does it out of jealousy and he's projecting his bitch-ness because he couldn't fight you - the only way he can 1up you is with words, and you not having any comeback makes for an easy target in the world where you can't be the one to strike first.
Next time he tries to call you a bitch or emasculates you in some way, you should ask him if he wants to wrestle or slap-box - when he declines (which he obviously will), you can say: "What, you don't want to wrestle/slap-box someone shorter than you? I knew it - All bark and no bite. Just like an annoying little mutt" or something to that effect. It's not threatening with violence as you're just asking if he wants to have a tussle, and he'll see how it feels to be called a bitch. This should really get under his skin because he actually is a bitch.
Hope this helps.
Dante 4y ago
I am surprised at the previous responses. The answer is obvious. Look him dead in the eye and tell him in an extremely firm manner "Mind your language when you speak to me" like you're gonna kick his ass. If my housemate called me a "bitch" I would set boundaries immediately, no room for bullshit. It doesn't matter if you have more money, kick ass for a living, or are Giga-Chad incarnate, if you can't set boundaries some people will run you over.
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
That sounds like a toxic household: living with both a beta and low value girl, not to mention 3rd wheel by default. Also seems like a high school environment and you have been slotted to the punching bag, most likely for not defending yourself, once again, you shouldnt even have to be in that position to begin with.
Very toxic man. Move out asap.
financehardo420 4y ago
lololololoooooooooool.
have had a very similar roommate before; this kid would come to literally scream at me like a little bitch. honestly there’s two ways you can go about it. you can keep doing what you’re doing. ignore, maybe deflect a bit. if you wanna be more passive agressive just don’t even acknowledge his existence anymore. act as if he isn’t even in your apt and you heard nothing. silent treatment type shit. or you can call him out and highlight his own bitchmade features. make it abundantly clear you don’t fw him at all and that if he keeps it up you’ll put him in his place. the latter will probably make him back off but it’s also gonna be awksauce in your apt till lease ends.
on another note just know in your heart this kids getting cucked for sure. fuck his girl when she comes back lmaooo. my chick has some dude bestie that fits this kids description (met him for first time last night and i’m 99.99% sure he’s into dudes). she asked me to come get her lol shook his hand and i could instantly tell this kid was bitchmade. alpha maled the fuck outta him and pulled off w my dime; fucked her brains out after. ain’t no better feeling lol
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Two words: liquid ass.