I’m kind of working on my prize mentality but what really do we have to offer women.
Women work now too, so its like unless you’re exceptionally rich its not something big we bring to the table. I mean even as an engineer I’m not making crazy money that can massively change a woman's life.
Looks? I mean moooost any guy including myself is nothing great to look at, especially since I’m bald. You can workout obviously and I do, but still its exceptionally hard to build a physique that is really really “something”. I’ve been working as hard out as hard as I can but I just look decent nothing phenonenal.
The only thing I have that stands out from other men is that I’m not a pussy and I understand the game. I kind of act like the prize just by default, its sort of engrained in me but I don’t really have anything outer or tangible.
Would a woman really ever prefer a man willing to be the boss and walk away over another man who has a better physique and more money who is more beta.
OtPayOkerSmay 4y ago
If you don't have good genetics on your side, I'd say just don't be boring. A lot of guys think they are a catch because of simple things like a good job and staying in shape, but they're boring as sin otherwise. Get status outside of your job by doing something like starting a hiking club that visits interesting trails, or join a co-ed sports team of some sort - make it so people can't wait to hang out with you again. Keep working hard to build your kingdom and physique, but work to find interesting and enriching hobbies that can expand your social circle.
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Moonraven 4y ago
I’ve already had braces my teeth are pretty good. Must be someone else
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Men and women are complimentary. We offer the masculine. They offer the feminine.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Masculinity translates into a bunch of things on its own. Women work now yes, but at their core they crave leadership and strength. They generally dont thrive emotionally in the current feminist PC culture which is basically a giant shit test to see which men can answer your exact question and be something more to them than the average beta cuck.
It would be great but ultimately doesnt matter much
Bad self limiting beliefs. Have some style, groom and use well fitting clothes and you are set. Lots of women love a guy who is bald and owns it. In the end Game matters more.
You're doing something wrong or havent put in enough time yet. Get your dieting in order with your calories and macros, and make sure you are on a good hypertrophy program.
Always depends. If you get in shape, get good in bed, earn good money, and are red pill, there are very few men who can ever compete. Sometimes good men give their commitment away for free and those men will get a girl easy, but there are lots of drawbacks waiting for them.
liftheavystuff 4y ago
Most women 20 to 35 are completely lost. I make 2 to 3x more than any woman I've dated in the past two years. Lots have roommates and are heavily dependent on government or employer. You can offer stability, direction, and a good dicking down.
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mattyanon Admin 4y ago
That's ok, women never respected provider behaviour anyway.
Looks are a big factor.
Speaking from direct experience here: women are attracted to slim and somewhat muscular. Visible abs and toned is all you need to impress girls with your physique.
Ok, so good enough.
Have you ever had a girl completely and totally and deeply wanting and being attracted to you?
This comes down to attractive factors and how you make her feel.
Attractive factors: looks, status, career (if it's high status), fashion (if it's good, mine never is).
And then how she feels when she's with you.
Girls are bored, most men they meet are weak, annoying and needy.
Instead here's what you bring to the table:
Most men are boring. Most women are bored. Give her some fucking fun. If she's not up for it, there's a million more who are.
OtPayOkerSmay 4y ago
"She feels lucky to have you because you don't commit to her and therefore she stays in "lucky to have him" mode rather than "he is committed therefore must start paying" mode."
My god. That is a phenomenal point.
They are told they can have/get anything and that men are easy, so the second something contradicts that (ie: a guy playing hard to get - not all men are easy) it will short-circuit them and they will chase your validation ferociously. Validate them by giving hints that you'll commit and that just pushes them away to chase some other guy that plays hard to get.