Ive been seeing my fwb 2 years, lately she has been giving me mixed signals about commitment while she had a bf and it was absurd, so i got fed up about it eventually.

The other day she gave me drama, dragging problems from the other relationship on to our casual date. I called her out on it and she got up and left because i had deleted a chat from my phone she wanted to snoop around, i told her that was toxic and was out of place and that she could leave but there would be consequences.

So i called her boyfriend and let him know i been fucking his girl for the last 2 years, that has had an abortion with me, that the ring on her finger is actually mine and not his we lost his at a motel, and that i have been seeing her on a weekly basis. He thanked me for it and said he would fuck me up i told him i do MMA i would fuck him up harder, but at the same time he said i was a brother to him for doing that and was very thankful and felt released.

I called her and told her what i had done, she started crying but said it was something she has been wanting to do for a while now, and said she doesnt hate me for it but is dissapointed it had to be done this way, and that i had no right to do that. I convinced her there was no other way to do these things. She asked for space to figure out if what she felt towards me was real (what?) however i agreed, and she keeps texting me regularly but i reply short , giving her the space she had asked for.

Regardless if its counter advised to upgrade due to the history and awalt, ill take my chances, inb4 oneitis.

How long should i wait before making a move with this girl? I didnt want a monkey branch so i had to make sure things with her BB Bf ended first, I searched up posts on and couldnt find anything in relation to how to approach a woman that has recently left a relationship, i wont be her tampon so im keeping her at arms reach.