Hey fellas,
So my LTR has verbalized the fact that when she goes out with her group of girlfriends, she accepts drinks from other guys as long as they buy her entire group drinks.
If she saw anything wrong with this, I don’t know why she would tell me and I have a feeling that she’s just using these men considering everything else in my LTR is absolutely perfect. She even told me she wears a bracelet with my name on it (she bought this herself lol) and eventually brings me up after she’s already received the drink. Almost as if she’s bragging or something.
When she mentioned this, I just acted like I didn’t care. I’m getting what I want afterall, but I’m wondering…. Should I bring it up again? Is she emotionally cheating on me or am I so high value she doesn’t care telling me this?
tenet 4y ago
I think the bracelet with your name would look great on some dudes cock. It is like you own him. You won't see it but it doesn't matter. If you don't like the idea - put the ring on it. It is too small to fit on a cock.
The other types of cock jewellery is explained better in TRP sidebar.
EDIT check Bezos value
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Red flags:
Drinking(party girl)
Girls night out(advertising her sexuality to other men)
Fraternizing with other men, while drinking, while out with other girls in a bar(hoe)
I wouldn't LTR a woman like that. Her single friends will ensure she fucks up because they're all crabs in a bucket. Her drinking will become problematic if you want kids. She'll have FOMO as feminists tell her she has "unrealized potential" and her man is what's holding her back. Just a big no from me.
master-of-losers 4y ago
You're fucking her and other dudes are spending money on her. Where's the problem?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
She sees nothing wrong with it. You'll find 99.9% of women agree with her.
She's either using them or fucking them. Probably using.
Don't forget men are idiots about buying drinks though.
Does she wear it when she's out?
also remember that men don't care about her bracelet, so it's hardly a chastity belt.
Being prepared to use strangers for something they offered is normal. It's not good, but again it's true of 99.9% of women.
no
There's lots of reasons she'd tell you this, some good, some bad.
JustJockin 4y ago
You seem like you know your shit man, I’d like to answer some of your questions and get your honest feedback here.
First and foremost, in regards to the bracelet… YES, I am certain she wears it while out (along with a neckless with my initial).
Additionally, this isn’t like a recurring thing, or something she hides. I’m usually invited but too busy with work or other friends.
Usually she’s texting me throughout the whole night (if she’s out)… You know, just dumb stuff chicks text when they’ve had a few drinks.
Can you lay out the good reasons she’d tell me this, as well as the bad? I’m trying to determine if I should mentally plate her and open up my FWB relationships, or give her the benifet of the doubt for always being submissive, not shit-testing, etc… Because I certainly could fuck other woman but I don’t necessarily want to jump to nuclear prematurely.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
good reasons for telling you
bad reasons for telling you
Do understand though, this means she is prepared to use men and lie-by-omission to get things from them. She is taking advantage of the Western dating system (men provide for women in the hope of a relationship) in order to get resources, then admitting boyfriend afterwards. One day you'll be seen as the male provider to be used rather than the alpha to be fucked. Make sure you are not married at that point.
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
Depends on the context, what did you talk to her about that made her bring this up? Sometimes people say dumb things without thinking about it, sometimes it's with intentions. If it's intentional, she could be trying to apply dread game to you and test your reaction. Ignoring her is the right move, which works for most of their actions.
Don't trust anybody to be 100% faithful to you. I don't doubt she did this, she might even wear it. Doesn't mean she wouldn't go home with somebody she likes and approached her. Trust me on this, I was the guy that came up to girls with bf and saw how they advertised their LTR but would jump on me as soon as I gave the signs.
No. Not likely (if they cheat they would hide it, unless they want you to know as a form of revenge) and No.