So something very weird happened to me ( female, in early 20s) and I figured you guys might be able to help me out. So I have a minimum experience in dating , almost nothing . I was in a club with a friend and she told me we could go to the guy she occasionally has sex with and he will bring a friend. So we were in a room, and he tried to kiss me. I actually found him very attractive but he showed 0 effort toward me and treated me coldly so I just couldn't really kiss him back. Also his friend called me boring and asked my girl friend something along the lines of " Why did you bring this boring friend? Is she always so boring?" So that made me even worse and more preassured After 15 min the guy I was paired with said he is going to sleep .That kind of hurt me ,cause I never experienced someone not even threating me as a human being .His plan was to go to sleep and lave me as a third wheel .To make situation worse I had to go with him to his room , cause I obviously couldn't stay with my girl friend and her guy as they were planning to sleep together. At this point I felt horrible and preassured. In his room, I tried to relax and kiss him cause I found him physically attractive but I just couldn't. He than called me weird and that he never meet a girl like me. I finally decided to go home , we talked a bit after that weird comment and he said " You shouldn't change because of anyone". My questions are : What did he mean by this last sentence ? Does problem lies in me? And is this the common behaviour in red pill guys?