Follow up post from my last one.
Yesterday, I started flirting with 2 other coworker girls in front of the girl that rejected me. They both act pretty well. Then I go to do something for half an hour and I come back to one of them acting a little distained. I tell her "you look like you won the lottery" and she smiles but doesn't say anything. Then I kept talking to the other one and she's cool and very talkative and interested in me. She even pokes me whenever she has a question or has to tell me something. Remember: the chick I asked out was 5 feet away from us and she looked sad. So the flirty chick asked her what was wrong and she had this "woe is me ;(((" vibe going on just like last week when she told me her problems as if I was a box of tissues and I can tell she wanted some attention because I would NOT talk to her. I ignored her the whole day, I didn't say dick to her and I kept talking to the other girls in hopes that maybe pre-selection will do it's thing and if not? Fuck it! I'm talking to other girls.
Today, this third chick that I flirt with acted a little indifferent. After a bit of talking, she subtly told me to stop calling her the nickname I gave her because she giggles like crazy whenever I'm around her which was "giggles". She even alluded that the girl I asked out was talking shit about me. I assume this is why the other girl yesterday had a shift in her vibe with me. Now I'm pulling back my attention on this girl too.
What should I do here? Should I just stick to talking to girls that are responding positively to me and then ask them out?
I know people are going to say "don't shit where you eat" but this is a job as a cashier at a grocery store so what the fuck ever.

mattyanon Admin 3y ago
NOTHING
DO NOT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT.
Sure, but equally we're not gonna help you do something that's a terrible idea.
There are other reasons beyond threat to your job:
User4566 3y ago
Well, I guess I had to learn the hard way. That's what I get for being stuborn. But I learned.
I'll keep to myself and work from now on.
User4566 3y ago
Also, why would it be poor on my personal development? I like flirting/talking to these girls because I can build my social skills.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
captive audience - not real
ImOnThePoH 3y ago
You are putting wayyyy too much thought into this, friend. Pull back dude. No point in talking to disinterested chicks, even moreso when it's at work. Just do what you have to and meet chicks elsewhere. Much less of a headache.
User4566 3y ago
Where elsewher?
ImOnThePoH 3y ago
well I'm 20 and have also had a hard time meeting chicks I am actually interested in. Actually dated a girl from a retail job (again, bad idea!) then dipped.
Right now (depends on where you live really) the only options are to just go out and do things. Learn to dance, take a cooking class, take a yoga class, photography, MMA, crossfit. Just find what you enjoy doing and socialize. To live among humans is to live life well, good sir.
Also, something that isn't really talked about is networking. Try to make friends with girls and they will introduce you to other girls, as opposed to flirting with every girl and becoming "that guy".