Im in town only on the weekends, betabucks recently found out his girlfriend is fucking someone on the side(me), so he's hogging her weekend and wanting to be with her 24/7 mate guarding. Last month he was taking her on endless trips (Dubai, Disneyland,etc), but now since she's got classes online he's just plain hogging the weekend.
Im starting to get annoyed by this bs and pulled back on my FWB, she was going to see me yesterday but this guy insisted on taking her to her first day to the hospital practices (she's a doctor like me), something I offered that same day after she would have slept over at my place..
Im planning to downgrade to plate, or should I be more tolerant of her beta hogging up most of her free time and not allowing her to decide when she can see me?
I honestly can't place a blame on her fully but I know its partial, we still see each other on a weekly basis but now I have to accommodate to her schedule and it sucks ass.
She keeps saying ill let you know when I can see you, but it pisses me off she expects me to be so available, I recently told her I always make plans for the weekend, and she has to make time on the weekend to see me or she won't see me at all.
Am I over reacting? Thoughts?

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anon55 4y ago
I take her out occasionally but most of the times she would rather come over to my department and fuck because she's afraid of being seen in public, sometimes ill let her stay over, sometimes ill leave her at her house.
ReGue 4y ago
if she's an fwb what's the problem? that's the whole idea, if i'm not mistaken, that there are few commitments involved
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
This is the classic case of the guy wanting more but in denial about it. The truth is that girls wants a relationship just as much as they want "good" dick from a fuckboi.
Girls frequently leave fuck buddies for relationships, guys who are subjectively lower SMV. But they add value to them via relationship.
quietus 4y ago
is this betabux her boyfriend?
TrpRebirthed 4y ago
Yes, they’ve been together for a few years now.
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
Think about what youre saying. Its not mate guarding if theyre officially LTR and he knows shes fucking you. Mate guarding is moreso for insecure guys who are mad a guy is checking out his girlfriend or flirting. Fucking them is completely different.
I doubt hes alpha but alpha dudes dont let someone willingly fuck their girl, in the frame of her going behind his back and cheating.
quietus 4y ago
jesus christ bro this world is done
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Why do you say that
quietus 4y ago
look at how degenerate and fucked up things are
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Judging by your reaction to infidelity its safe to assume your blue pill social conditioning is still very much present.
quietus 4y ago
lol, how the fuck is having honor and expecting non degeneracy blue pill? its literally the opposite. TRP is not about morality anyway.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Exactly
quietus 4y ago
okay, it doesn't mean YOU have to be amoral. The TRP facts and skills are amoral, like a tool or a skillset.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
TRP as a community is amoral. Deal with it. Dont have to catastrophize.
quietus 4y ago
lol who are you to say what the community is? There is def a plethora of morality in TRP community. just because you have no morals doesn't mean others dont.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
TRP was created, and has a stated purpose. It's not up to either of us.
Thats besides the point though. Keep your own morals, but as a part of unplugging you need to get out of the bubble of your sheltered life and accept the realities of male and female sexual dynamics. Cheating happens all the time and is nothing new to the modern age.
quietus 4y ago
yea TRP doesn't deal with morals, we already said that. Doesn't mean I cannot call out morally corrupt things on this forum. I do not need to accept such "realities" because they are not realities they are man-made social values coming out of a corrupt and dying culture. It is you who needs to unplug.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
I think you're the one hogging his LTR bro and not the other way around. You cant seriously get pissed off that she's choosing to try to at least cover up her affair better.
Dont get attached. She's a plate/fwb. No commitment. Whoever cares the least holds the power.
grilledcheesaroo 4y ago
So, wait... you want to promote her to a girlfriend after knowing she is cheating on her boyfriend? That makes you a Beta, too. Find some other plates and she'll see she's losing you.