I’m fucking defeated, so frustrated, so angry.
Its constant rejection, after rejection, after rejection. And its never just a flat rejection either.
Its going on a date with me, snuggling up during the movie, seeming like its a great date, only to get the slow fade out until LJBF.
Its matching with me on tinder, texting me first, seeming like we have good chemistry, she is talking sexual, then when its time to go out. Ghost.
Its fucking flirting with me, seeming to be into me, saying we should hang out. Then after a while of planning till it can finally work “just as friends though.”
I’m beyond fucking DONE.
I feel like these women just want to fuck with me and torture me. Its not enough that I’m not getting the pussy I want but its like being fucking dangled in my face. They’re fucking TORTURING me.
And I have no more answers I don’t know what else to fucking do.
I’ve done everything under the sun.
Lift, dress better, groom well, smell nice, take the best pictures you can for tinder.
I’ve been every person. I’ve been me. I’ve been a more asshole version of me. I’ve been a more “down to earth” version of me. I’ve tried a kinder version of me. I’ve been the interested but I won’t chase you guy. I’ve been I’m not interested just talking to you to be aloof guy.
I don’t know what the FUCK to do anymore.
I’ve done everything, take is slow, take it quick. Always be the prize vetting her. Display high value. Be confident and ballsy. Take the lead. Just fucking everything. Nothing is ever enough.
I can’t fucking handle any more GOD DAMN rejection. I feel like no matter how much I improve myself its never enough. I don’t know what the FUCK is wrong with me.
I just fucking can not anymore. Please someone help me. Tell me some fucking thing man.
Like what do I have to do, inject steroids in my ass. Is that the only way to be hot enough. Be a millionaire. Nothing is EVER FUCKING GOOD ENOUGH.
I’m so GOD DAMN tired of being fucking rejected. Not just rejected but toyed with. I fucking CANT ANYMORE. I want to scream.
Why the FUCK do you match with me on tinder, banter and flirt, message me first often. Talk sexual like you want to get fucked. And then, mneh ghost.
Why the FUCK do you come to the movies, cuddle up with me, laugh and shit. Nah LJBF I’m not ready to date right now. Then I see you on dating apps.
Man I just don’t know what to do anymore I don’t fucking KNOW WHAT TO DO.
I’m fucking hurt by getting played, I’m frustrated not understanding why I’m never good enough, I’m defeated because I improve myself so fucking much and still I can’t get the good pussy I want. I’m sexually frustrated and getting teased like this all the time thinking “hey I might fuck this bitch tomorrow its gonna be so hot” isn’t fucking helping.
Fuck please help me
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coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Hard to give useful advice when you're all over the place.
You have way too high expectations for OLD. Dont take what girls say seriously. Look only at their actions. Their words are just used to play with you, see if you're fun and if you'll mess up and lose frame to them. They're filtering.
Detach mentally from the conversations as if a meetup is not gonna happen, until it actually does. Tinder is a mess and most girls are just there for attention and to see if a chad will take them.
You also seem like you're very incongruent in your behaviour and state of mind. You're trying to act in a certain way. Yes you should evolve and practice game but trying too hard to be different than you are is very unattractive and shows uncertainty.
I also think you're taking too long to escalate sexually. You're not polarizing enough if they want you just as a friend and they actually believe you would consider that.
If you havent, you should read The Book of Pook. I liked the youtube soundbook version from El Zorro Plateador. I still sometimes put it on the tv while cooking etc. He does some legit funny voice acting.
koedeloe123 4y ago
I know how you feel, we've all been there. Sometimes it's best to take a break from dating. Monk mode for a bit, improve other areas in your life. Do yourself a favor and delete every single dating app. Like RecoveryTime said, the cost of pussy is extremely high. The ratios on dating apps are horrible.
I went through a period you described. Went monk mode, delete all dating apps. Now I only cold approach or do social circle game, and the results are way better. Where are you meeting most of your women?
Moonraven 4y ago
Some in person, some online.
They all do the same type of shit regardless. Its just toying with me and idk what I’m doing wrong anymore. Idk which area I’m lacking in. I just don’t know how I’m fucking up anymore and each fuck up is making my mental health so much worse but also not getting pussy is also not good. I’m horny and want the women.
ThrowawayAccount_2k 4y ago
Holy shit I have never related to something more. 2 month dry streak rn and my mental health is fucked. 500 matches on tinder, 5 fucking hundred. Girls will open me, ask for my snap and then ghost me or come over, make out and then make an excuse to leave. I don't know what I'm doing wrong and its really fucking with me. Am I autistic or do I just have to hang in there? I feel like I'm being teased and tortured.
nfc66 4y ago
Hard to say what you could be doing wrong without providing more info. An external observer would be able to give you some pointers but you need to provide pictures, profiles, texts and so on. It could be something that comes naturally to you but has the effect of chasing women away
Yeah online dating is getting worse by the day. I've been on Tinder for about 4 years now or even longer and at this point it's just insufferable. Not sure it's worth the trouble
I get where you're coming from. It's rough out there. And if you're always faced with negative feedback it's extremely difficult to break the cycle
You need to find peace within yourself and it's a process that I'm personally struggling with as well. People suggest meditation, journaling and so on but the truth of it is being a regular human being you need validation. We're wired to be like that
If you need someone to talk to hit me up
quietus 4y ago
same here but i havent gotten a kiss yet i think women are just fucked in the head these days lol
whytehorse2021 4y ago
It's not you, women have priced themselves out of the market. Try a new market. Leave these ratchet hoes to the streets. Let them get pumped and dumped by Chad while you exit the market and go get Latinas or Asians or e. Europeans.
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
Social media is a gossip machine for women and Tinder is a meat market. I checked out in 2005 and it's only gotten worse. Best decision of my life. Did you know there are people on this planet who don't derive their value from instagram likes?