i dont understand i eat very healthy and exercise everyday in the gym. I wear nice fitted clothing (i sort professional fashion advice) i get expensive $50 haircuts ans also have a skin care routine . i talk to people and try and humour peiple im working to improve my finances as well i also have hobbies football exploring etc
yet 0 women show interest in me
meanwhile my tall good looking friend who doesnt do self improvement gets laid easily
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Amazonforest 4y ago
maybe because they have confidence and charisma unlike most of loser here who dont leave their house and think they are entitled to every women and then cry about it on the internet "wHY iS nO GirL InTeReStEd iN Me"
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coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Maybe consider that women are the ones who decide who is alpha and not. Seems like you cant wrap your head around what women like.
Amazonforest 4y ago
youre doing it wrong. It seems like youre self improvement is for girls, it should be for you. If girls are not noticing you then you clearly aren't doing something.
Also to add your comment about $50 haircut is bragging and not the right attitude.
Seems like you never talk to women because if you did youd have plenty of them
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Are we talking online dating here? Only 4.5% of guys get swiped right on. Try cold approach day game instead. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIWBVZ9GJWw&t=1s
OLD has been giving men and women a false sense of their own value. If you want to do OLD go watch the tinder swindler for how to do it right. As for self improvement, we don't do it for women. I'm not gonna lie to you and say if you do everything right you will get the outcome you want. You may be short, ugly, whatever but if you can't max out in looks, money, and game... increasing what you can will increase your SMV.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Really? He's a degenerate scammer.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Yeah he's a fraud but he knows what pulls women. I'm not suggesting scamming but learn from the pros. Fresh and Fit do a pretty good analysis using red pill of his use of tinder and instagram plus FOMO and other techniques.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
My point is that they're not the pros. The guy is legit just lying. Anyone can do it, it's not hard. And F&F should be taken with a grain of salt too. They are neither naturals nor well versed in red pill theory.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Rollo also did an analysis of tinder swindler. It's one thing to lie, it's another thing to get people to believe those lies and give you $10million. In our case we just want sex but the tips and tricks are all the same.
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coolsocks00 1 4y ago
This comment reeks of bitterness. Yes, OLD is rigged. It will cost money and time and give little in return unless you have decent looks and good photos. Yes, you should focus on day/night game instead.
That being said, the majority of attractive women are going to be on OLD sometime in their life. Is it a red flag? Sure. But if you think all women on OLD are the same type of hoebag it just shows you have no idea what you're talking about.
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coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Nobody asks you to
Yep, no shit
Who says you gotta marry them? Who says you gotta pick the girls who live on tinder because they're shit and cant find a guy who likes em?
If your SMV is good and you dont mind spending a bit of time on it you can have great success in OLD. You can find sluts that make fine plates. You can find virgins. You can find girls whose main red flag is that she recently created her OLD account, but is actually just looking for a BF. See my point here?
I dont really care as you and everyone else hating on OLD are only limiting your own options.
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coolsocks00 1 4y ago
In other words you're still bitter over rejection
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unplugged69 4y ago
How's your SMV? How good is your frame? Have you learned about stoicism? You need to spend a lot of time on inner game even if your SMV is great and I suspect it's not.
When your SMV hits a certain metric people treat you differently, it's hard to explain it but you'll know it when you reached it. I suspect that's how women feel their whole lives until they hit the wall, but they didn't earn it so it's empty.
Your SMV and your inner game are only 2 aspects out of 3, the last aspect is as important as both of those combined. Your social game.
You have to expand your social circle, learn how to make friends in any situation, you will meet more women in real life than you ever will online. OLD is a scam unless you're in the top 1% and even if you are the quality of women there is shit.
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coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Read the sidebar. Looks isnt all women care about
Congrats on becoming a person
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
Nobody is forcing you. If it doesn't work for you and you think it's a scam then just stop doing it.
Corneliuscaruso 4y ago
That’s boring, it helps but anyone can do that.
Do something uncommon
Motorcycle? Top5% of something?
Don’t do it for chicks either
If you were to watch your life’s movie, do you want to see the part where you were fighting for a woman’s approval? Hell nah