Hi guys,

I am a huge fan of cold approach and doing it almost daily. One problem I have is with maybe girls, my skill is still not high enough to game maybe girls. And as you know the most girls are maybe girls, so I cleary have to work on that.

I have two problems:

The Main problem

    • How to convey value as fast as possible? Sometimes I just have 4-5 minutes with a girl and after that she says she has to go. Whats the best way to convey as much value as possible in this short time frame?
  2. How to spark interest? What are good ways to spark more interest?

Right now I am doing following: It depends on the girls, bust most of the time I am starting with some cold reads to avoid interview mode. When she is saying something I dont like or is a good opportunity for a tease I say "wow already a redflag" or I reward it with some compliments. I keep on eye on being a little bit more "punishing" than rewarding, but yeah sometimes its not that easy, but the idea is to make her chase me.

But yeah sometimes I talk with girls, they are clearly talking with me and expressing their self but then after 4-5minutes then have to go and 99 % when I ask for the number in this case its over.

I also feel that I need to make the conversation more man to woman but I still dont know if this is a good idea after 1-3minutes talking

So yeah I think my problem is convey my value which would increase the interest in the girl. I am 190cm high, looks are on point and I am shredded