I enjoy my free time too much, i dont enjoy meeting new people irl, i rather learn more about my hobbies and get better at them than socialize, things that interest me - powerlifting, bodybuildng,armwrestling, finding that sick heavy metal band on youtube i never knew existed, video game development, nutrition, calisthenics, astronomy, physics, debates... i think the biggest thing that is not helping my case with women is that i just dont desire it enough and i kinda want to continue on this path, developing the social skills required doesnt seem worth it...
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ShagginDragon 4y ago
I feel you man. Lately I've been a lot happier doing self-improvement/hobbies than pissing away my weekends running up and down city streets shot-gunning approaches, it often just feels like time better spent working on my pursuits. Ironically you might be surprised to find it easier to meet women when you're out, if you're already content in life from doing all the things you mentioned in your post
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
What's the question?
aweawea_ 4y ago
If i was to have a question, its if there is such a thing as being on the wrong path in life if you are unable to open up to women and have remantic relationships and children. I don't know if i'll ever have that, currently i don't posses the social skills or have the social circle to get that, at times i feel lesser and an unsalvageable outcast, but then i look at my achievements in other stuff i do and i don't feel too bad but at times feeling a bit like missing out. I think i don't want it enough and make excuses but i don't know if i even want to change.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
It is your life to do with as you wish.
Again, it's your life and 100% your choice.
ScallionGrouchy2945 4y ago
If you don't have something you don't want, then you don't have any kind of problem to fix.
If you don't have something that you do want, then go get it?
I don't understand if you have a problem or not.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Congratulations. You have yourself as your mental point of origin. If a woman doesn't add value to your life, she's not worth it.
aweawea_ 4y ago
I think that is correct, i am who i am and i put that before everything else. I often get from people that i am too silent, to smile more. People who don't know me well. They think i am feeling bad in those moments but i am just not someone who tries to portray something that is not there in that moment. The doubts come from not having something that most other people do, that makes you want it a bit, just enough to cause turmoil, even when you realize you don't want it because of the things it offers. Just want it to not feel less. And that is not enough to motivate you to do the necessary things to get it, so you never do. My father never had trouble with women and thinks women will just fall over and fight for me just because of my looks. "You just have to go out." He doesn't realize that this is not the case if i don't desire it strongly, and i don't want to tell him that because it will hurt him. But i can't do it just to please him. I also sometimes think i am coping by telling myself i don't want it but at this point i think it really is the case that i don't.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I've known a few men, my dad included(post-divorce), who didn't have any interest in women. You might make friends with 1 or 2 that want kids and if you decide you want kids one day, marry your friend. That's what I did.
aweawea_ 4y ago
Yeah, for real, imma focus on my goals and eventually IF my status starts doing the hard part for me ill think about it but i aint wasting my time and energy chasing after hoes.