Ive been into rough sex for a long time now and i feel pretty maxed out (choke, spank, dirty talk, pet names, pin down, pull hair, slap tits etc). And i do apply a lot of BDSM concepts into my sex game, i would say i do everything short of actual bondage and would like to get started.
Probably just start off with handcuffs, since theyre pretty basic. My plate is coming over later this week and i will show them to her before we fuck. She likes when i hold both her wrists behind during doggy, so im about 110% sure she will consent enthusiastically.
My question is, when a girls is in handcuffs - you can basically only fuck her in doggystyle right? Or can she do missionary and cowgirl. Do i keep the cuffs on just for one or two positions or during the entire round (i can usually last 20 minutes+ while switching between many positions)
Is there anything else i should be doing, is it just as simple as cuffing them and fucking them as normal, or is there something else im missing?
pfeilmacher 4y ago
I suggest using rope over handcuffs, as rope is much more comfortable. Plus girls love the look and feel of nice rope work.
coolsocks00 1 4y ago
Rope requires some practice to do safely though.
pfeilmacher 4y ago
Binding a girls wrists behind her back is not rocket science. As long as she's comfy and doesn't think it's too tight, it's all good. But, yes, you certainly don't want to hurt her permanently.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Leather strap / cuffs are much much better.... full wrist compression (which is erotic), no biting/soreness/pain.
nope..... hands above head, tied together so you can flip her, fuck her any position you like.
start slow
do more if she begs for it
tease her first
SgtBuchannon99 4y ago
Does that mean you tie her hands upfront first so shes able to throw her hands overhead in missionary for example?
Does starting slow mean just 1-2 positions the first time and taking them off?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
hands in front yes.... then you can tie them to the bed above her...... and you can fuck her in most positions, flip her over, etc.
No, it means ONE position and then taking them off.
Howdoiverify 4y ago
If she's tied behind her back you can always face fuck her until she pukes on your dick but that really depends no point in stating it. I'm not messing either. Also maybe start with tying up to pillar you know bed frame etc and tease the fuck out of her. If you feel like she climaxing maybe stop and deny it. Bitches be going crazy when they can't move their hands and be teased, hell some of my interactions I get pushed away because her legs are shaking and she's feeling like she's gonna piss herself but actually squirt. Don't forget uncle Vasya pattern move - ankle drag.