I talked with a girl on IG cause we liked each other all our pics on IG, by DM she started telling me I was hot and I said the same about her, we edged sexting, but she told me she had a "partner" and she its faithful. I stopped talking to her. Fast forward 3-4 months, she saw pictures of my dating girls in all that time and started talking to me again. This time I escalated talking about her using a tie, and me squeezing her neck with it, also told her I have lots of ties and that she should come to test them, she agreed and we escalated to other topics like playing with bdsm kits and how hard she liked it. She even told she had a corset to play with me. But when I tried to schedule, she told me shes a good girl and respect her partner.

How do I destroy that last wall? Its worth pointing that her partner its ugly, and veeeeery beta. Like not worth even a stare for any girl with taste.